I went on a date with a girl from Tinder - it went badly because I’m super socially awkward and have poor motor skills - however at the end I asked her if she wanted to kiss and we ended up making out and like doing foreplay in the car without having sex (tongue kissing, kissing her neck and boobs, grabbing her ass and like squeezing her against my body she also moaned lol). There wasn’t any compulsion she could’ve just left and I only expected a little peck on the lips. Texted her at the end and she said that she didn’t really feel a connection, fair enough, and she didn’t remove or ghost me which I found super weird. What the hell does this mean? It wasn’t a good date I agree I’m a huge autist but the part at the end just confuses me. She also said that I’m a really nice guy which I take to mean she isn’t interested but she called me attractive before and we did the stuff in the car? Like wtf?
>inb4 omg you’re a fucking normie making a dating thread
Uh okay sorry I guess?

She didn't feel a connection and it was your first date, get over it, nigga.

>>33405946 (OP)
>however at the end I asked her if she wanted to kiss
kinda gay

m'lady if it pleases thee may I share thine lips in embrace of my own

zoomers don't know about body language I guess

>Texted her at the end and she said that she didn’t really feel a connection, fair enough, and she didn’t remove or ghost me which I found super weird. What the hell does this mean? It wasn’t a good date I agree I’m a huge autist but the part at the end just confuses me. She also said that I’m a really nice guy which I take to mean she isn’t interested but she called me attractive before and we did the stuff in the car? Like wtf?
in short, she kinda liked you well enough at first and wanted to see what you were like, and your awkwardness was there more than anything

maybe you texted her some cringe as well

but hey you got to make out and she didn't block you so that's a pretty good date as far as I'm concerned

>>33405946 (OP)
>She also said that I’m a really nice guy which I take to mean she isn’t interested but she called me attractive before and we did the stuff in the car? Like wtf?
You were boring and socially awkward and there was no connection. She was into you physically and didn't want the time she wasted to be a total loss. She used you with no intention of anything further. Move on, there will be no further dates. There are worse problems to have. If you want to avoid this in the future (and you should because you aren't healthy and mature emotionally yet) you should not escalate physically for several dates and generate the feelings and hormones that will make you feel yucky when you do get used.

>>33405954
I’m not obsessed about it idrc I’m just really confused about the making out and not blocking me part. I was kinda waiting for it to end as I was driving her back. This is the only date I’ve ever been on where there’s such confusion, before it’s either been obviously good or obviously terrible.

>>33405998
There's nothing to get other than there wasn't a connection. Maybe she doesn't like how you kiss and touch her, who cares.

>>33405991
>m'lady if it pleases thee may I share thine lips in embrace of my own
I don't really know what else to do.
>zoomers don't know about body language I guess
In the past they've just initiated it if they're into me.
>>33405997
I suppose that makes sense. No hookups in the future then kek?
>you should not escalate physically for several dates and generate the feelings and hormones that will make you feel yucky when you do get used.
I am a male I don't ever been "used" by women. Also we both paid she maybe paid slightly more actually.

>>33406019
*I don't ever feel "used" by women

>>33406019
>I don't really know what else to do.
>>zoomers don't know about body language I guess
>In the past they've just initiated it if they're into me.

you just gotta wait for the right time/place, typically you would just like walk/drive her home and kiss her there, or like before you part ways if you're both taking the bus or something, or just chilling the movie theater after the post-credits scene and everyone else has gone, etc.

>>33406042
>or just chilling the movie theater after the post-credits scene and everyone else has gone
Fair enough I guess I'll try that for future movie dates.
>>33406016
Also fair enough. Again I don't care I'm just confused. It's either been strictly good or strictly bad with other dates - binary.

>>33405946 (OP)
She was really horny thats why but since you were super fucking boring you fucked and only got a bit because she really wanted to get something on her end. You could have had passionate sex with her that night. Can you describe how she was? was she white or hispanic? I might understand if she was hispanic. No way she was a middle to upper class white girl unless she was super drunk.

>>33405946 (OP)
I'm guessing you look nice but are retarded.
I suggest you start a youtube channel and make some videos so you can see what you look like to others and improve your communication skills on your own.

>>33406080
>She was really horny thats why but since you were super fucking boring you fucked and only got a bit because she really wanted to get something on her end. You could have had passionate sex with her that night.
I didn't bring any condoms with me because I wasn't expecting it to go beyond kissing.
>Can you describe how she was? was she white or hispanic? I might understand if she was hispanic.
White, super feminist, two tattoos, typical appearance although her hair and eye color (both natural) reminded me of a pornstar I know. I am white and close to a foot taller than her, I don't know how else to describe this.
>No way she was a middle to upper class white girl unless she was super drunk.
She was sober and middle class.

>>33406090
>but are retarded.
Should I start going on more dates to get better at this? I think my social skills got worse after breaking up with my ex since I rarely do stuff with my friends and when I do they're usually lame. Went on restaurant dates, had sex and got high together at my apartment. Was nice but it couldn't work out.

>>33406030
>*I don't ever feel "used" by women
Bitch you just had a date that got a little frisky and you're running to 4chan to talk about how unsatisfied and confused it left you

You might be sublimating your feelings or think it's feminine to feel used or whatever but you are absolutely feeling used right now. You wanted to make a promise with your body that would lead to something

>>33406113
I'm confused. Previous dates have been strictly good or bad like I said. It went friskier than I was expecting it to, even if things went well I did not expect more than a smooch and so I didn't bring condoms with me. I'm using 4chan because it's anonymous and I can ask questions to many people here. I don't feel "unsatisfied" because I figured that, regardless of the outcome, I haven't been getting out of the house enough and if I don't do socialize (like on Tinder dates) I'll become even more socially retarded.

>>33406113
>You wanted to make a promise with your body that would lead to something
I'm open to sex if the opportunity arises but I don't really care if that doesn't happen. I only got butthurt when trying to have sex for the first time many months ago but that's not a problem anymore.

>>33406119
Making out or foreplay only happened on the good dates before. The bad dates either involved no physical touch, a hug, or a brief smooch on the lips.

>>33406098
Well then she most likely found you attractive especially since you said you were almost a foot taller than her and you met on Tinder. What did you even say in your messages with her on tinder? Was there anything she pointed out about you, and what replies did you give her if there was any exchange of messages on tinder? Most likely the reason she didn't block you is because she still finds you physically attractive but your personality killed it for her.

>>33406174
>Well then she most likely found you attractive especially since you said you were almost a foot taller than her and you met on Tinder.
Yeah she directly called me attractive
>What did you even say in your messages with her on tinder?
Some jokes and witty crap I'm much better communicating by text since I've been chronically online my whole life. Nothing overtly sexual but I was still getting over my ex and I was mostly just looking to chat.
>Most likely the reason she didn't block you is because she still finds you physically attractive but your personality killed it for her.
Is there still hope for sex bros... I won't pester her or message her again thougheverbeit.

>>33406090
Why upload what is probably gonna be cringe? You can just watch it back locally.

>>33405946 (OP)
you met a hoe nigga

>>33406188
No, but you should have blocked her straight after she said she didn't want to go out with you anymore and unmatched on tinder. This is the best thing you could have done. At least in her mind she won't remember you as clingy (if you tried to get her to go on another date with u) but assertive. Also remember that shes on tinder so she has tons of other options. There is no chance of fucking her. Get rid of her. Theres plenty of more whores out there just keep swiping.

>>33406215
Probably
>>33406239
I mean I don't really care I don't think I came off as clingy either whatsoever

you fumbled that tremendously, she wanted to fuck, you didn't proceed and she's onto the next one, not blocking in case she's thirsty and desperate

>>33407443
>you fumbled that tremendously
I am literally socially retarded.
>not blocking in case she's thirsty and desperate
Maybe one of these ovulation cycles then xd

>>33405946 (OP)
Jews