I've been feeling a bout of love sickness lately. What's the best way to destroy these feelings?

>>33406739 (OP)
Silly young, naive anon. The suppression of emotions leads to much worse neuroses and more unhappiness. Pursue your desires. And stop being a retard.

>>33406739 (OP)
Are you sure you want to destroy them and have asked yourself why?

>>33406827
I'm 30. I improved myself a lot but there are a lot of things wrong with me. I'm too ugly for dating apps and there's nowhere to meet actual people.
>>33406832
yes I'm sure. I don't qualify for love. Even if the perfect woman fell into my lap I wouldn't treat her well and I also don't really get horny anymore

>>33406893
30s young and you can have a naive mindset
>dating apps
Are garbage
>there’s nowhere
Then why the fuck do I at 5’5” meet people constantly. Answer: because I talk to anyone anywhere and do things.
STOP COPING

>>33406906
Why can't you just accept that there's people with repellant looks and personality? I don't want to suffer anymore. Is that too much to ask?

>>33406893
Someone will find you worth it enough to find your personality and lower libido to not be a problem. A lot of people understand that we can't just be perfect at all points in time.

>>33406950
why is it so unacceptable to want to not want to feel love or find a partner?

>>33406962
Because it's usually a coping mechanism based around dog shit self worth and how you view yourself as a potential partner or love interest. You're in a retarded headspace, ruminating on aspects of yourself that you hate or find unacceptable.

>>33406919
By that same logic if there’s so many people with repellant looks why can’t you find someone else with repellant looks?

>>33406970
Yeah you're right but that doesn't change the fact that I am weird and effeminate looking with very bad muscle building genetics and almost no facial hair. It also doesn't change how I grew up with a single mother who was abused by her parents and didn't know how to raise a son. Like I said, I've improved a ton of stuff about myself but it just can' make up for all the issues I've always had
>>33406978
Because I'm not willing to settle for a 300lbs black woman with a child whose 7 years older than me. I tried but I just can't do it

>>33407004
So you look towards other male family members or friends that you admire, and you learn from them. You're not inadequate just because you don't feel prepared. You're making an effort, and that says so much more than most people are doing

>>33407014
I don't have any friends or family that have successful relationships. Look man I'm not looking for advice on how to get a relationship. I want to excise these feelings from me so I don't kms after my family dies.

>>33407048
Then emulate what your own ideals are. That's more important anyway. Even sans the context of doing it for a partner. Do it for yourself first. Become someone you respect, or try the best you can. Lovesickness is not going to be easy to deal with though. I'm suffering through my own mess with it, and I think it would take outright attacking my personality or something similar to kill it right now

>>33407071
I don't know anon. I don't know if I can overcome my issues. I've been trying for 10 years. I feel like I just can't wake up

>>33407159
It's not about waking up. Think Kill Bill. Start by wiggling the toes (which you've already started with self improvements), and continue up the rest of the body until you're fully up. You can accept parts of yourself, and your efforts to make positive changes. That's kind of enough for a good start if you can push yourself that far.

>>33406978
try shoving two opposite side magnets together to the point where they touch you fucking retard put a chain around your neck and walk into a fucking mri

>>33406739 (OP)
learn how to destroy\heavily repress memories i wish i could tell you more but i could do it since i was a child how i do it is i folcus on the memory replay it as clearly as i can visualize it and they destroy it untill i see nothing then you can move on to larger memeories then parts of memeories then concepts then full blown emotions i once removed someones face using this technique and i literally could not visually perceive their face for about a week that should keep you from killing yourself what you can also do is completely self isolate the less you haev actual human contact the better eventually your mind will start to numb out the pain the yerning will be there just not the pain

>>33407375
This is actually good advice

>>33407464
its how ive been going through its been months since my last in person conversation this stink on 4chan is basically the last vestiges of my subconcious primal self crying out to have some form of tribe

you are a social creature you want trube you want love you want to reproduce your primal self isnt a much subconcious as it is your physical brain to truly detach is to kill that physical calling out it will hurt you will be in pain but eventually it dies down somewhat remember you are the one in control of yourself your brain can not force you urges you do not want deleting these urges is how you delete feelings wants

>>33407464
another good way is expulsion its basically targeted projection if what you want is love channel your darkest most hateful emotiosn and spew them out at others even if they are not real they just need to seem like others let your want for love turn to fuel in the fire of rage then when your mind wants you to yearn for love instead all you feel is rage