how do I get over the paranoia that my normie girlfriends friends who hate me for not being a normie are eventually going to get to her, and she'll feel the need to break up with me to avoid being socially ostracized? She defends me for being considered weird among other things, but were getting past the honeymoon stage now (comfortable silences, minor bickering) and I don't know if she likes me enough to keep being judged

>>33408764 (OP)
Then she was never worth it to begin with

>>33408764 (OP)
Just embody the better example and you are fine. Treat your girlfriend as the name implies, a girl>friend<. Make her your lover as well as your good friend. Be her rock, her support and also see to it that you are secure in yourself. Demonstrate as much at least, even if you don't feel it. For example, encourage your girlfriend to know her own value and respect. When she falters, reassure and encourage. Accept who she is in her entirety, faults and all.

Then if the day comes where her peers are barking at her and threatening to judge her, she'll always choose you every time without even thinking. Because she will instantly know who is wielding fear over her and who isn't. She'll instantly know it's her 'friends' doing the fear mongering. And she will see how fucked they are in comparison to the peace and stability you offer.

>>33408764 (OP)
i had similar worries. i have no social media for example and am far from a normie. my gf told me no social media (or relationship experience) was a major red flag which she discussed with her friends.

i met her friends since and they like me because they can tell i care for her and that we have chemistry. not that i particularly care anyway. how do you know her friends hate you?

>>33408784
>Cont
And if this still doesn't work, if she chooses a toxic friend group over what you offer (if you truly do embody good honest virtues), then you at least know the blame isn't on you. Its on her. It means she was rigged to always choose toxic shit, long before even meeting her, and that it was inevitable. Then you plan accordingly and heal and move on.

>>33408764 (OP)
When the time comes, you know this is how we will be.

>>33408788
>how do you know her friends hate you?
they'll look at me with disgust walking past me, ask me rhetorical condescending questions, and just generally act backhanded towards me. typical vain normie teen girl shit. Some are better than others but I'm certain absolutely all of them tell her I'm weird, autistic, boring etc.

>>33408784
seems a bit idealistic no? Even if I'm a good man to her, I've been dating her for 3 months compared to friends she's known her entire life
>>33408793
>>33408773
Why would I hold it against her for leaving me instead of her friends?

>>33408902
>Why would I hold it against her for leaving me instead of her friends
You dont need to hold it against her but why settle for someone who doesn't value you over her other friends? Literally accepting that youre a subordinate person in your girlfriends life lol. Dumb cuck mindset

>>33408927
any sane person would trust and value their inner circles judgements. It's just when those judgements are bullshit when it's a problem. I can fault her and express disapproval at her choice of close friends, but not for listening to them on principle. That doesn't make me subordinate