[not bait i swear] Should I tell people I'm a trans girl on the first date - /adv/ (#33411795) [Archived: 25 minutes ago]

Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:32:47 AM No.33411795
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I'm new to dating as a was with a highschool gf for a while, but I'm pan, so I'll date any gender and ik that lesbians don't really crae but what about guys? Would you want your date to tell you they're trans on the first date.
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:33:43 AM No.33411798
>>33411795 (OP)
>Should I tell people I'm a trans girl on the first date
Yes, also kill yourself.
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:34:55 AM No.33411803
>>33411798
>live entire life unable to pickup girls
>sees someone else living a happy life
>must jerk small dick
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:35:39 AM No.33411807
ugh
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>>33411795 (OP)
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:38:28 AM No.33411820
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>>33411803
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:41:19 AM No.33411827
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>>33411803
Hit a nerve?
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 8:03:13 AM No.33412284
If someone somehow passed so well that I had no idea they were trans, we went on a date, and at the end of it they told me they were trans I would beat the fuck out of them. You tell them before ANY date.
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 8:24:53 AM No.33412327
>>33411795 (OP)
I would rather know it before any sort of romantic contact. I only want biological women as my partners.
Zach
7/25/2025, 8:45:53 AM No.33412381
Don't feel embarassed about. In a way us guys can kinda tell too. You'll find your dream bisexual guy, you just have the find the one that fits sexually with you and doesn't mind all your quirks. Not all straight guys fit that way. Not all trans-men vibe with straight women (I'm not talking about progressive hipster types). You just got to find the right fit. The right man for the relationship like the right tool for the job is what you gotta recognize as a transgender woman.
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 9:26:20 AM No.33412450
>>33411795 (OP)
A prospective date will either care, or not. If they don't care you lose nothing by mentioning it. If they do care, you could lose a great deal by not mentioning it and ambushing them with it later. So there's nothing to gain by keeping it secret, and potentially a lot to lose. So yeah, tell people.
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 10:11:28 AM No.33412554
>>33411795 (OP)
Ideally no, because it's none of their business
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 10:34:43 AM No.33412593
>>33411795 (OP)
I would brutally murder you and get the biggest fucking trial on Law and Crime Network ever. I'd have that kike Steve Lookner streaming me smiling at the jury. Fuck you and die slow
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 10:39:55 AM No.33412604
>>33411795 (OP)
>Would you want your date to tell you they're trans on the first date.
What do you think, freak? Would I want to know whether I am dating a real girl or some ghoulish man?
>>33411798
Fpbp
>>33411803
>>sees someone else living a lie
Ftfy, tranny freak
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 4:25:49 PM No.33413497
>>33411795 (OP)
In theory, if I am dating you under the assumption that I am dating a female and you reveal to me that you're packing a full cock and balls, I will probably beat the shit out of your pervert ass for trying to bait me.
In reality, you are obviously a biological male and don't "pass."
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 4:31:13 PM No.33413515
>>33411795 (OP)
Don't worry hon, they can tell.
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 4:38:17 PM No.33413541
>>33411795 (OP)
Yeah I'd make it very clear as possible so nobody gets the wrong idea
>>33413497
Why? You haven't fucked them yet. Just fuck off and go home. They did you a favor by letting you know
>>33411803
If this is you OP I never got how trans people are okay with small dick jokes. We suffer from body dysmorphia as well
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:22:10 PM No.33413658
>>33413515
Protip: 4chan experts like us can, from seeing quite some pixels in our time, but normal, dumb men will not immediately
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 5:37:13 PM No.33413688
>>33413541
>They did you a favor by letting you know
They wasted my time by lying to me. I make it clear I'm straight. If you lie to me about being a woman when you are a man, then you deserve to be beaten.
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 8:30:05 PM No.33414433
>>33411795 (OP)
>not bait i swear
Means it's bait, and I won't read it.
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 8:34:43 PM No.33414454
you're a crossdresser
do this shit at home, thanks
Anonymous
7/25/2025, 10:53:48 PM No.33415051
>>33411795 (OP)
I mean it should be in your dating profile so there's no confusion, but otherwise yes.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 10:17:42 AM No.33417606
>>33413688
>>33412284
what happened to these posters that makes them so violent? if something this minor is enough to set them off, how do they manage to exist in civil society? would you also beat a woman if she revealed any number of other incompatibilities?