i think my coworker is in love with me. i know this might sound delusional, and if it is indeed the case, please let me know that but here is what has happened.

i am a guy, this girl is working at the same company as me basically on the same team. there has been constant layoffs at work and no hiring, and as a result, i have been the only eligible male at this company for quite a while. as a result, there are very few guys that can comfortably talk to her the way i am able to.

anyway, we were at a company social event and someone made a comment in passing that she was my girlfriend. There was an awkward silence, then she looked at me and said "u aren't beating the allegations" and i froze because like i didn't know if it was a joke or not.

Then i began to realize some things. Like she talks to me different than other people, and stays quiet when there are very easy jabs to take at my character, jabs I've seen her give to other guys. Then she gets really excited when i bully her. aside from that she tries to make eye contact with me when possible. Someone else made a comment about her touching her hair after i walked in a room.

i dont know what to do because first of all, i already know her as a person and no way in hell would i be wanting to get in a relationship with her.

is she in love or is this like a crush? or is she acting? she is a couple of years older than me i dont know whats going on.

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let her escalate then smash or reject

>>33412149
she wont escalate, i am afraid she is just going to assume herself as my work girlfriend which i dont want to happen or to escalate. i want her to get that idea out of her head.

>>33412133 (OP)
Get to the sex having.

>>33412133 (OP)
Bang her harder than the two bombs hit Japan

She obviously likes you, Autist. Just get her number and don't be on her ass.

>>33412193
Initiate coitus discreetly

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none of you are giving me the advice i am asking for.

>>33412254
The only reason she would be in love with you is if the connection calls for it, which isn't most people. She's giving you hints, she's not acting, but it's no guarantee you will keep her interested.

>>33412133 (OP)
Just vonfront her in some secluded place. That's what us men have to do, unfortunately. Ask her openly what all that means. If she becomes your gf, cool. If she tries to play games - cut your losses.

>>33412254
cause you're not taking the right approach to the situation
she's right and you should do what she wants

>>33412133 (OP)
She likes you. That does not mean she's in love with you. There is a difference.

>>33412254
fuck her right in the pussy