Thread 33413647

I am slowly developing more anger and rage because women aren't attracted to me and always ghost, ignore, and reject me. Please help me from not going full ER or Brian kohberger on women at my college.

>>33413647 (OP)
>Please help me from not going full ER or Brian kohberger on women at my college.

oh nooooo. don't do that! Modern women are such wonderful creatures!

How many girls have you asked out? In the last year?

>>33413647 (OP)
How are you full of rage about it? In the past when I was treated like you were, I would simply just get depressed. Rage really wasn't a thing for me.
However even the depression/sadness went away. Now I just feel more numb than anything after being ghosted/ignored/rejected. I don't even react at all because it is so common for me. It's literally the expected outcome for all my interactions with women so it's the natural reaction really I think.

>>33413683
10

>>33413647 (OP)
Slow game my friend, make friends with them first and then move in from there.
Worst thing that you can do is become bitter, because once you are bitter its self fulfilling prophecy.

>>33413647 (OP)
Why SHOULD women be attracted to you?

That's a real question. What do you bring to the table? Maybe it is just not what they want.

>>33413737
How can I? I can't even get a girl to respond back to my texts. I say as much as hey hows it going/what are you up to and they never respond back.

>>33413739
I'll treat them well, take them out for walks and dinner, take them on trips to the coast. That's why they SHOULD be attracted to me but they aren't because I am not a 6 foot 6 figure 6 salary Chad.

>>33413760
>That's why they SHOULD be attracted to me but they aren't because I am not a 6 foot 6 figure 6 salary Chad.
There's your problem. Nobody SHOULD be attracted to you, it's their decision not a requirement. They're not disinterested because you're not a perfect ubermeinch sigma male, it's because you feel entitled to their affection because you meet a basic check list.

Just be a cool guy they know, don't go out of your way to show them you're interested or make extracurricular contact, let things happen organically, talk to them. If an opportunity arises ("Oh I love this book, how far in are you? When ___, ___ and ___ happened I felt so ___, would you want to talk more about it over coffee?") then be open but not pressuring.

>>33413807
At literally any other point in human history. Treating the woman well would have been enough.

If I have to play mind-games just to get a mate then they can go fuck themselves.

>>33413845
"Oh anon treats me like a human being and obviously goes out of his way to talk to me but only because he wants to get in my pants, I think he's the one"
I'm just telling you to quit being so autistically direct and befriend them first.

>If I have to play mind-games just to get a mate then they can go fuck themselves.
You're going to die alone with that narrow minded view and victim mentality lmao

>>33413760
>I'll treat them well
Doubt. You sound like you would be an abusive asshole.
>take them out for walks and dinner, take them on trips to the coast
So would anyone else. You've failed to convince anyone you have anything good to offer. The thing everyone sees the most about you is your negativity and anger, which is never attractive.

>>33413845
>At literally any other point in human history. Treating the woman well would have been enough.
You couldn't be more wrong if you tried. You would have been an angry low IQ virgin incel 50 or 100 years ago as well.

>28
>healthy
>intelligent
>artistic
>cultured
>athletic body
>do sports and exercise daily
>don't drink alcohol or do any drugs
>people constantly say I look 18-20

Still no zoomer or milennial women ever approaches me, and the few ones I've tried to talk to end up ghosting me, always. Instead I see them kissing in parks with ghetto edgars dressed as thugs.

It's over

>>33413760
Nigger how are you even in a position to take them to dinner or on "trips to the coast" if they're ignoring, rejecting and ghosting you as you claim?
It's not them, it's you. You're getting your foot in the door if you make it that far, and then you're doing something to blow it.

>>33413900
Bro what do you mean? I'm telling you what I would do if they didn't reject/ghost/ignore, etc. I can't even get a female to respond back after I say "hey what's up (girls name)". The most she will say after that is hey or hi and after I say "what are you up to?" I never hear from them again. If it's not ghosting through text, the woman will flat out just say no thank you or already have a boyfriend

>>33413872
You don't know how I act. I am pretty smooth with ladies and quite friendly. It's because I'm not Chad they either won't be interested or pretend to be interested and then ghost me.

>>33413760
>I'll treat them well, take them out for walks and dinner, take them on trips to the coast
This is how I treat my dog.
>At literally any other point in human history. Treating the woman well would have been enough.
No it wouldn't you're just a fucking incel
>>33413916
>I am pretty smooth with ladies and quite friendly.
Definitely comes off as a creep and probably makes jokes that make women uncomfortable
>pretend to be interested and then ghost me.
realises you're an incel and stops speaking to you out of fear of being raped

>>33413932
>>Definitely comes off as a creep and probably makes jokes that make women uncomfortable

If Chad acted smooth and friendly with the ladies, women would see it as charming and ""omg he is sooo sweet"". But if a non Chad did this, it's creepy.

I don't make weird jokes with women I talk to them normal and casually.

>>33413932
Dude. Accept reality and realize that OP is just not a Chad. If he was a Chad, or had tons of money, then women would not care about any of these so called issues you bring up

>>33413992
>>33413998
Same poster but "Chads" don't exist, it's about your mind and how you persevere yourself.
You're just delusional if you're not baiting.

>>33414010
>>Lalalalalalla chads don't exist :)

Shut up

>>33413647 (OP)
>I am slowly developing more anger and rage because women aren't attracted to me and always ghost, ignore, and reject me.
Why would you be angry at them instead of being angry at yourself for being extremely unattractive?

>>33414085
Incel behaviour.

>>33413647 (OP)
The moment i started fighting back, the moment they started noticing me. I realised that i do not care, that i don't live for them, i started restricting myself to live by how my God has commanded me to, not how any girls would like me to act in front of them.
It all starts with us anon, when you refuse their advances, they will hate you, becuase they cannot phantom a guy who they have no power over, who does not fall for their tricks, but this is to be expected, as the devil dwells in their intentions.
>If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.
>>33413700
Do not live for the world, run, RUN from this degeneracy.

>>33414028
Chad exists but he has no effect on you because Chads don’t sleep around. They might string a girl along or flirt but they aren’t hoarding a harem or banging rando’s every weekend because promiscuity, even among men, is gross and repellent and a sign of low self worth. Chad has a few girlfriends in HS/College with maaaaaybe a ONS thrown in before he finally gets married at 26 or so. The guys who are going full fuckboy are guys more similar to you except they went full try hard on getting women and had the determination and mild sociopathy needed to game the dating system. The only reason those guys have such high body counts is because they’re great at closing the deal with a woman but lack any kind of meaningful personality that wasn’t constructed deliberately to seduce women and the “relationship” falls apart after a month or so and they’re onto the next woman.

t. I am that guy

>>33413647 (OP)
I wish you could just for once experience what it's like on the other side. I have no problem dating women and getting laid and outside of sex i prefer being alone or with my friends. Youre only upset about this because youre sexually frustrated. It's not even worth it. I wish you could just see what the other side was like then you would hardly care.

>>33413647 (OP)
Focus on other things.

The guy I know with the hottest gf never gave two fucks about girls. He studied hard, hit the gym, got ripped and became a pilot.

Stop chasing girls when you're not desirable. Just accept it. You're not currently desirable and that's fine. Take steps to change the situation or stop complaining - it doesn't mean you're not valuable as a human, or that women are trash, or that you have no chance of ever being happy. It just means you have work to do. Humble yourself and do it.

Bitterness and resentment get you precisely nowhere. And they eat you up.

>>33413647 (OP)
>Please help me from not going full ER or Brian kohberger on women at my college.
You're a coward just like your sissy daddy & whorish mommy and you won't do jackshit, faggot bastard. Go ahead and see how many women you can eliminate. You'll be lucky if you can hurt one before your ass gets busted by other simps, chads or even women for that matter. You're a weak, pathetic subhuman and you'll always be a slave to the chad-foid duopoly. Learn your place in the genetic hierarchy and consider yourself lucky for not being castrated & worked to death

>>33414826
>consider yourself lucky for not being castrated & worked to death
Wtf anon. Kekd

>>33414835
you would've endured that fate had you been a low status subhuman peasant complaining all day in the islamic caliphate or the roman empire. Subhumans should know their place and accept their fate of being genetic dead-ends. Not doing so and grumbling all day only means they're going to invite more trouble in their already miserable lives and make their death even more excrucriatingly painful & humiliating

>>33414847
Interesting. Maybe history isn't so boring after all. I hated it in school, it seemed to be about memorising names and dates of all this trivial bullshit

>>33413647 (OP)
>because women aren't attracted to me
Okay. What are you doing to *be* attractive? Is your hygiene good? Do you have good clothing style? Are you approachable? Do you have consistent haircuts? Are you fit? And I don't mean bodybuilder muscular. But I mean healthy for your height and age. Women look at men's bodies the same way we look at theirs. Again: what are you doing to *be* attractive?
>always ghost, ignore, and reject me
The only common denominator between all these women is YOU. The root is something YOU are doing. Not them. It's not their fault they are being true to their nature. YOU are the one off balance here.

>>33413647 (OP)
>>33414775
See OP?
>The guy I know with the hottest gf never gave two fucks about girls. He studied hard, hit the gym, got ripped and became a pilot.
It's not about chasing women. It's about focusing on yourself, being a leader, and finding your own higher purpose that transcends a woman. Then a nice woman will see that and choose to join you because you don't *need* her, but are happy to have her along with you. Women aren't the objective or goal. They are a side effect of a man who is in balance and has purpose.
>You're not currently desirable and that's fine. Take steps to change the situation or stop complaining
Exactly. It's time to look within yourself and find that higher purpose in life. Something to drive towards. You have to build a life of happiness that you can *share* with a woman. The woman herself isn't there to make you happy. That's something you have to do all on your own.

>>33414870
I go to the gym, go to college, make enough money, what more could girls possibly want?

>>33413647 (OP)
>Literally limitless porn
>Probably 10 years away from functioning sex bots
>VR porn already a thing
>35 threads a day about how people want but can't get judgemental, crazy, blown-out whores because they're too busy getting clapped out like an old M1911 to settle down and have a family

Anon, just understand the world in which you're in, and accept it, or don't. Let it drive you nuts if you want to, I guess, but you're not going to change anything that way.

>>33414914
>>33414949
Both of you are wrong.
>6'5, blue eyes, trust fund
This is just women rattling off random shit. Men above 6ft are 1% of the population. Add the others and they're literally asking for unicorns. It's the female equivalent of a guy saying he wants a stick thin model with triple D tits who sucks his dick every night and takes it up the ass. And just like men, those women consistently deal with partners who aren't that "ideal." So we can put that argument to the side as complete garbage
>What more could women want than gym, college and money?
Umm, personality? That money isn't going to fuck them. That degree isn't going to give them a dopamine rush and a memorable experience. That's like a woman saying "what more could a guy want than cooking, cleaning and raising his kids?" Uhh, sex. Or said another way "what more could you want than the regular shit you should already be doing?"

I don't know what it is with men, but there's a disconnect in understanding that women *also* want to be sexually attracted. They also want emotional experiences, which is the root of good guy vs bad boy. The bad boy is a dopamine rush. He's not predictable. He's his own man. He's not regular. The nice guy is the exact opposite and that's a turn off. When dealing with emotional creatures don't forget that their emotions exist.
>Muhh but what about money and my degree
There's a reason women will fuck ugly, broke, unfit men. Emotions.

>>33415303
that doesn't make sense. female preferences always converge to the same few features. men have hundreds of different types. dumb foid. if you can't fuck it's because you're ugly. truly terrible people who look normal actually fuck a lot but can't maintain relationships. 'emotions' is magical thinking used to obscure female preference. everything about female sexuality is deception.

>>33415344
>everything about female sexuality is deception
No, it's about being socially presentable. You can get the true answers if you have a good enough connection and don't judge. Or you're just not an idiot and simply observe what they do and give zero shits about what they say.
>emotions is just magical thinking used to obscure female preference
You've got to be kidding me. They aren't logical. They're our opposites. If you can't understand that, you shouldn't even be proselytizing your bullshit here. These "only the face and money matters" faggots need to die.

>>33415431
why are you decrying logic while also encouraging empirical investigation
>simply observe what they do and give zero shits about what they say
oh but when you do that you start to notice... gosh... consistent patterns, almost as if there's a ... logic to it!!!!!

>>33415344
As someone who's touched grass, women do have varied tastes in men. Men just have less varience compared to women.

>>33415474
a facet of intelligence is the ability to notice the underlying patterns and shared structure between objects that might seem disparate at first glance

>>33415444
>Why are you decrying logic
I'm decrying the idea that women are logically driven. Can we apply logic to the things they do? To an extent yeah, but you have to concede their emotional drives to do so. Why else is she fucking the ugly fat nigger whose belly flaps back and forth as he thrusts doggystyle? That wasn't a logical fucking decision, lol. Why did she fuck the dude she herself rates as a 3/10? Or why does she stay with the dude she knows is cheating despite her friends even telling her she deserves better? Emotional drive. Dopamine. Feeling alive.


So breaking this down semantically: yes we can apply logic and determine the underlying system or set of principles women generally use. But are they logical as in having sound reasoning? Fuck no. And that's the part you're getting stuck on. Logic and being logical are not one in the same. You think they're being logical when they're absolutely not. All you've done is filtered out a pattern. Good job, have a cookie. You've got half of the equation left to complete.

>>33415513
you're really bluepilled. closing the thread now. seems like you are struggling to grapple with
>women will have sex with men they aren't attracted to
because you think they're magical fairy creatures who run on love and happiness and not rational, self-interested people just like men

>>33415485
I've noticed that plenty of different looking men have wives and girlfriends.

>>33415528
again, you're just unable to notice underlying patterns

>>33415303
The median white male height in murrica is 177.5cm and is a lot higher for young white men. Tf ya yapping? Even with 177.5 cm stat, the amount of men at or above 6'2 is easily close to 10% and maybe higher.

>>33415552
it's impossible to estimate variance of a population statistic from just the mean

>>33415522
>women will have sex with men they aren't attracted to
I never said anything against that. We see sugar babies, prostitutes and acculturated prostitutes all day. Most women are the latter, wearing a mask throughout courting and *seemingly* switching up after she's gotten what she wants (marriage and a baby)

No. My problem is you seem to be arguing that operating rationally is *ALL* they ever do, which is not the case, hence the examples I gave. My problem is you argue in absolutes like
>EVERYTHING about female sexuality is deception
If you weren't so high on your own hubris, you'd realize, from the examples I gave, that your conclusions about my thought process wrong. I literally gave a situation where the woman *wasn't* attracted to the dude. Newsflash: a regular "ugly" dude with nothing in particular to offer can still fuck relatively attractive women.

>because you think they're magical fairy creatures who run on love and happiness
Not even worth a effortful response.

>>33415552
Great. Now account for race, marital status, physical fitness and income.

>>33415536
Give me an example.

>>33413647 (OP)
Listen to Dr Joe dispenza meditations. You need to reprogram your brain away from the past to a future you.

>>33414943
If perfect sexbots are on the way, why would men care about a real woman being attracted to him?

>>33413647 (OP)
Elliot rodger in the big 25, the media is still scapegoating this nigga

>>33415552
1 in 3 guys in usa below the age of 27 are above 6ft

>>33415835
give me evidence of this right now, measurements taken from a random sample of men in that age bracket. prove it

>>33415909
nta but don't the males from midwest states have an average height of 179cm or above?