"Casual" - /adv/ (#33414196)

Anonymous
7/25/2025, 7:42:01 PM No.33414196
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She takes forever to reply to texts
She doesn't reciprocate in bed
She has initiated 0 dates

However she constantly flirts in person, initiates touch regularly and after sex she'll open up about her childhood and say all this stuff about how how happy and content she is lying next to me.

But she makes ZERO effort.

Is this what "casual" dating looks like? I don't like it.

Shall I talk to her about what we're doing, pull back a little or just end it?
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Anonymous
7/25/2025, 10:31:25 PM No.33414948
>>33414196 (OP)
Receive casual sex, receive casual effort. Doesn't sound so bad.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:36:00 AM No.33417276
>>33414196 (OP)
Kill her
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 9:07:34 AM No.33417377
>>33414196 (OP)
I think sadly this is how it is. I'm in the same boat as you anon, and I won't leave until it is completely wrecked
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 9:26:33 AM No.33417429
>>33414948
Maybe in theory but I actually like the girl. She clearly doesn't like me back, this dynamic isn't equal or healthy

>>33417377
Sorry dude, it's a shit feeling. Happened to me once before. I'm just gonna pull back, fuck it. She can initiate the next one if she wants. I don't like that I'm making all the effort here