I'm a son of a single mother and I'm a goddamn fucking loser.

Am I a lost cause or can I somehow rewire myself?

>>33414422 (OP)
I'm also the son of a single mom, I'd say I'm doing ok. Good job doing refrigeration, couple close friends and lots of buddies, I rent a cute house with my wonderful fiance and our dog, it's a good life.

What needs to be rewired about you brother? The biggest thing yoh can do is acknowledge that your parents actions won't define your character.

>>33414422 (OP)
Do you not have any men in your family? You need to spend time around them.

>>33414453
an abusive stepfather

>>33414530
Clearly I'm not talking about him. Any others? But if not, you need to find men on YouTube. If you can't find a mentor in real life, you can have a virtual one. How old are you by the way?

>>33414533
19

>>33414422 (OP)
How old are you?

>>33414557
Join a casual adults sports league.
Indoor hockey, soccer, basketball. There'll be older guys in there who can take you under their wing.

Or try a boxing club(look for one that has a no sparring policy as they're not going to be tryhard) and you won't scramble your brains.

>>33414422 (OP)
I grew up with a single mother and grandma for the majority of my life. Typically, when it comes to dating, they will always tell you to just be yourself, be romantic, treat women with respect and tell you how handsome you are 24/7 (may or may not be true). I will say that my mom did a great job at raising me at the end of the day regardless of some ideals she placed on my when I was younger. We today have a great relationship, when I ask for advice she doesn't sugarcoat it and isn't biased and if I fuck up, she let's me know.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 24 and it mostly stemmed from not having hobbies that include women. Think video and trading card games. Also that I thought if a woman really liked me, she'd make the move, which actually happened but not really from girls I thought were attractive. When I started dating I was basically a guy who wore his heart out openly. Scared many girls away except a few but that particular girl was only visiting for 3 months. After months of failed dates, I dived into Red Pill for a few years which did drastically increase my lay count but hurt in terms of trying to find a girlfriend. Red Pill definitely enlightened me when it came to the nature of women but overall I stopped following most of the "rules" because while I was getting hookups, I had a hard time finding girlfriends.

Now I'm 33 with over 150 lays.

>>33414601
>Join a casual adults sports league.
>Indoor hockey, soccer, basketball. There'll be older guys in there who can take you under their wing.

Never really worked out, I get bullied so hard in school, cause I suck so much during PE.

>>33414623
Yeah, the thing about Red Pill is it's great for getting hookups. But if you want something more, you have to know enough to know what to ignore and what to play into. The rules of attraction are basically the same but tactics are completely different.

>>33414557
>>33414601
Seconding this. You have to go out of your way and put yourself within the realm of men. They won't allow you to be a bitch and will definitely help you out.
>>33414818
So start working out at home to build up your strength and confidence. Then go into that. Or just a gym without sports, because every man should be exercising at least for maintenance purposes. This will also increase your attractiveness because women oogle our bodies as much as we oogle theirs. There's a reason they love it when dudes wear the grey sweatpants (dick print).

>>33414422 (OP)
What curse?

Are Barack Obama, Lionardo DiCaprio, Dwayne Johnson, Justin Bieber, Will Smith, Tom Hanks, etc etc etc all cursed?