M'kay, 31 year old virgin here. Ive got a girl who likes me. We have had two dates, last time we held hands. Her sister set us up and she insists she is very shy. Tomorrow night we are having a 3rd date at my house to watch a movie.

Will she expect me to try to have sex with her? Is it ok if I dont try to initiate sex? How long can we be date without having sex? If she tries to have sex with me should I explain my situation? Id rather not lie since I like her a lot. Would it be weird if she spent the night and we didnt have sex? Would it be ok if we just cuddled on the couch? How do I have sex and not suck at it? How do I make her vagina feel good?

I just don't want to disappoint.

>Is it ok if I dont try to initiate sex?
Yes, it’s okay anon. Don’t do anything you’re not comfy with. You can just cuddle on the couch, and she can initiate if she wishes.
>should I explain my situation
You mean explain that you’re a virgin? I wouldn’t do it unless the topic comes up or if she initiates and you felt compelled. You can just be honest and let her know you’re inexperienced. If she’s the right girl, she won’t judge you for this. Good luck anon. Hug.

>>33415610 (OP)
Kill her

>>33415610 (OP)
>Will she expect me to try to have sex with her?
Calm down. If she's shy then this is exactly what she's afraid of. Just take it easy, worrying about this sorta thing is how you fuck it up. Be cool and just have fun watching a movie. Whatever you do, do NOT tell her you're a virgin. If you do get sex and it gets awkward, just say you were molested. She'll understand.