I am not looking to groom her or control her, I just think we get along well and have similar personalities. I am kind of immature but smart, she is kind of mature but dumb, I don't know. seems like a romcom #meetcute.

what do you think /adv/?

your reddit friends are probably more equipped to answer that question.

>>33416283 (OP)
Anon, as long as you're not fucking an underage girl, it's fine. People, usually jealous people will talk shit, but nevermind them. Do your own thing.

>>33416461
This

>>33416283 (OP)
Yes it's fine ignore the jealous older women

>>33416283 (OP)
does she even see you that way? she might be attracted to you but that doesn’t mean she wants to actually start a relationship with you. you’re 33 for goodness sake find someone your age

>>33417241
Don't listen to this woman OP. Go for it. Youre not doing anything wrong.

>>33416283 (OP)
Incurable "wrong question" issue.
I won't read is it normal threads posted by knuckle-walking, formulaic, subhuman autistic morons. Nothing can be done.

>>33416283 (OP)
Yes its okay. She is a 20 year old adult, not a 20 year old child.

>>33416283 (OP)
Women will say it's awful but it's pretty normal. All my grandparents after a certain point in history basically had 8 - 10 year age gaps between them, with the man always being older. A 13 year age gap is kind of on the high side but still it's not that much longer than what they had, and things worked fine for all of them.