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Anonymous No.33416295 [Report] >>33416535 >>33416727 >>33417379 >>33417644 >>33417650 >>33417657 >>33419981 >>33420395 >>33420404
how do i actually get a girlfriend/how to approach a girl?
20f, not interested in using apps. I havent had a gf since I was maybe 16, and it's incredibly frustrating. I have no idea on how to get a gf, and approaching women is even worse, as I tense up each time I go to approach one. It's not the issue of women aren't into me, but I get incredibly scared of what they may think, or of rejection. It also doesn't help my self esteem considering I work blue collar, and I feel they may look down upon me for it.

any advice as to how I can be better with approaching women, or how I can go about getting a gf?
Anonymous No.33416535 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
I have advice for the men that will read the post, but not for you. You are a homosexual. Please change. Life will be better for you.
Anonymous No.33416652 [Report]
Easy.
> Make yourself look cute. Do your hair or whatever it is that lights a spark of confidence in yourself.
> Deck yourself out in carabiners all around your belt. This used to be not-so-secret code that you're a lesbian.
> Wear a Xena Warrior Princess shirt or a lesbian pride flag.
> Wear a convention consent badge like pic related.
> Go some place with a high concentration of lesbians. A convent, horse ranch, gay bar, etc.
> Catch eyes. Draw attention. Make the hearts of your fellow women flutter with desire.
> Have nobody approach you because the man is supposed to break the ice.
Anonymous No.33416727 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
Women lust to be wanted and are hyper focused on details, so dress nice, appear nice and at least have a clean car and abode. Women are focused on relationships. Ask about her family, ask about her friends. Maintain eye-contact (when not talking to men) and pay for everything. From there, its all dice.
Anonymous No.33417379 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
I won't read yet another escapee from the HTGWG thread. OP will NEVER get a gf because he is too retarded even to check the archives.
Anonymous No.33417644 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
The same advice I would give a man - meet as many women as you can, as friends. Somewhere among them will be one you connect with romantically
Anonymous No.33417650 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
lesbian bars
LBGTWXYZ clubs and events
Pride marches
Anonymous No.33417657 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
beer halls
far right rallies and events
white power marches
Anonymous No.33419981 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
Here’s how I did it when I was your age:

I hit up as many stores as possible, particularly ones with women cashiers and staff. Now, you don’t even need to ask them anything, just meet 5 people over the course of a day.

Each of these is a micro encounter and it’s your job to just get reps in.

I used to go to Trader Joe’s and ask the staff to find something. Then, I’d hit up the cashier and they’d chat. Sometime the manager would need to verify my ID for booze. Damn that’s two or three encounters.

Coffee shops work too because you can actually initiate a conversation simply by asking about a pairing. Like what muffin would go with a dark roast. Then, when she’s ringing you up, you make sure to tip her. This is important because no one likes a cheapskate.

Now, make these two stops part of your weekly ritual. Add in a stop to Panera Bread, gas stations, book store, etc and these reps put you in a positive mind state.

Bear in mind, this power can wane if you’re a shit-in. I make sure to hit up Panera Bread with their Sip Club free coffee and now all the staff know my order. Social proof

The last time I went yesterday, I look over to my right and a blonde was watching me. She gave me the sexdeath stare. This then triggered a latina to pop up from her booth, and she gave me the same stare. I ignored them but could see that they both changed their seating positions. No need to approach. I got a hit of dopamine and had shit to do.

Also, you need to stand out. Dress well and smell well (very important). I use sandalwood, patchouli, and vetiver mix in a light carrier oil, which I put on my wrists and chest after a shower. Then, a light cologne (buy a tester pack) on a decent shirt. I typically use dark red shirts for finding pussy, but blue patterns are excellent. Avoid bright colors or logos unless you are deliberately showcasing your wealth. In these cases, I have some Patagonia shirts with the bear logo. You can buy these CHEAP
Anonymous No.33420395 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
Try Bumble.
Anonymous No.33420404 [Report]
>>33416295 (OP)
Homosexuality is a sin and so is fornication.