So it's going nowhere with this girl at work. Another week, I try to get near her, she doesn't acknowledge me. And what's worse is that I started daydreaming about her at work and it's getting hard to focus. At the same time, I'm afraid she will reject me if I get bolder. So I decided to put an end to it: I'll just write a note, give it to her and hopefully I'll be able to get over it

"Hey, I'm X from the X floor and I like you very much. Here's my number if you want to talk.... "

So i've got couple options
1. I'll leave the note on her desk before she arrives. Risky as it's actually frontdesk, lotta cameras and someone else might see it
2. I'll have some flowers delivered to her and the note hidden in the bouquet. Risky as there might be people around when she gets them
3. Have a work mate give her the note. Risky as I don't trust these guys
4. Hand over the note myself inconspicuously. Risky as it requires some dexterity I'm not sure I have it
5. Socials. I'll send friend requests to her Facebook and Linkedin and, once she adds me, I'll tell her there. Risky as she might not add me.
6. Thinking of sending her the message on the company internal messaging app. Might be safest way.

Which option should I go with ?

>>33445252 (OP)
Don't write it on a note, don't text it to her. Say it to her like a man, directly.

Write it on a note if you are not confident on talking to her.

are you the receptionist guy who over thought her not looking at you once? Just stop, my nigga

>>33445499
lol no

>>33445405
What option should I choose to deliver it though

>>33445378
There are certain risks here

>>33445252 (OP)
As someone who's on the downslope of a thing with a coworker, don't do it. Either you'll humiliate yourself out of the gate and that'll sting like a motherfucker, or she'll be receptive, in which case you'll have fun for a while before it inevitably implodes. Then you'll have to see her at work all the time and it'll be awkward as fuck and your stomach will be in knots because of the constant reminder of how good it used to be. Maybe you'll even succumb to the temptation to 'fix' things by sending her whiny texts that she never responds to. Then you'll have to face her at work the next day full we'll knowing she read those cringy novels you wrote and shared them with her girlfriends.

>>33445252 (OP)
never ever ever blurt out a confession or contact her outside work, its 100% gonna be considered a creep move if theres been no mutual exchange, if youve tried to strike up a conversation and shes not enthusiastic then shes not interested.. if you havent tried to talk to her then do that

forget it, have a laugh about your autism and move on

>>33445252 (OP)
>I plan to act like a retarded 12 year old and give her a note
FFS, stop bothering her and seek therapy

>>33445558
There are risks to every method. I'd vote for mine being the least risky, in terms of it being effective. It's your choice.

>>33445558
>risks
you have no idea what the word "risk" means

>>33445713
If I dont tell her, my crush is going to get worse. How many painful weeks where I try to get near her ? I like her and she IS going to know it.

>>33445643
Hey having to worry about a bad breakup is like the least of my concerns. I'll gladly take that over what's going on right now

>>33445719
What's so retarded about a note ?

>>33446420
Ok what does it mean then ? It might go badly if I tell her face to face

>>33448133
does she even know your name? bro, especially when its at work you take small steps to ensure there is mutual interest, i.e talk to her about anything else first, gauge the interest and move on from there.. a confession or contact outside work with no sort of hint its coming is gonna be considered creepy and ure shitting the bed 100% of the time every time.. best u can hope for is being cleanly ignored

if u dont get any conversations going with her then leave it alone and think about the mental gymnastics u were going through with this and how to fix that.. clearly ure not thinking straight, leave her out of that, this aint it chief

>>33445252 (OP)
I am getting bored with your endless non-adventures. Either walk up to her and say "Hi. I'm Anon. I pass your desk every day and just wanted to introduce myself" or give up and find some other masurbation fantasy

>>33448513
Thing is I cannot continue for weeks on end this tedious game of trying to approach her. I need something to either move things forward or put them to rest. Hence the note/message I plan to send her. Which of the six options I listed is the safest ?

>>33448598
Thanks, but I'm here for piece of advice not to entertain you. Also I don't masturbate to her. I daydream of us walking in the park

>>33445252 (OP)
OP I have told you several times now that she is giving you zero signals and it's done on purpose, not because she didn't notice you, but because SHE DOESN'T WANT TO NOTICE YOU.

The more you linger around and try to force her to notice you, the more she will be creeped out by you (she is already creeped out because she knows you are trying to get her attention). Ask her out straight up and be done with it, she will reject you 99.99% but at least you can move on.

>>33449186
>I daydream of us walking in the park
Yes dude every beta male falls in love with a pretty face and dreams of holding her hand while strolling through the park. 99.99% it doesn't happen though because she has endless options. I bet you she isn't even attractive but a pretty face goes a long way for beta males like yourself and there is a long ass line of dudes who have the same dream like you.

OP is either baiting, or is a genuine social retard who can't be saved. I hereby condemn this thread. Everybody move along.

>>33445252 (OP)
try her socials, just tex her an tell her you like her dude jeesh. Tell her you've always liked her.

>>33449264
>i like u, do u like me??

That's fucking retarded behavior. You ask someone to hang out, make a move, and go from there. Revealing that you have all these pent up emotions about a stranger is insane and offputting.

Ok, this is going places.

>>33449225
Thanks, zero signal guy, that's exactly what I'm going to do. That's the NOTE for. What delivery option is the safest ?

>>33449274
Yeah, but wasting time to get a rejection anyway is also not ok. This way it will be quick and probably less painful
So hopefully next week is the BIG week.

>>33451718
Note only works if you are a Chad and she is giving you signals, and usually on the younger side. It's not really suited for adults, but it can work in situations when the girl is below you in looks and you are just passing by her and are unlikely to see her again. Think about having a bunch of notes and passing them around to girls as you pass them by, 1 in 10 might be interested and respond to your phone number, instagram or whatever contact you left in the note. There is no need to use this method for this girl since you are in her proximity every day and can just talk to her. If you use the note on her, she will know that you are scared/anxious of her and this won't fly with her.
If you use the note on her and she doesn't reply to your contact you will still wonder and wait for her to give response, which she will never do, so it you will still be stuck thinking of her. Man up and ask her out, after you do this at least several times and get rejected, you will have more confidence in the future or you will give up completely depending on your character. Basically you haven't approached enough women in your life, this is most likely your first and it won't go well and the rejection will hurt. After you do this several times the rejection won't hurt as bad.