can or should I m28 ask my gf f26 to unfollow a high school friend on Instagram with whom last year she tried to date.

We had the body count discussion lately and it's all cool with me. then we asked if we were at all in touch with our previous partners, it was no from me, and she said she still followed her non-toxic bfs (which is fine by me) but she also said she was following that high school friend of hers

they went on 3 dates last year, she lovebombed her, they had bad sex, and then he ghosted her. he eventually apologised to her about his behaviour saying he was acting out cuz his mom had died and he was dealing with it by using her as an emotional tampon.

I know she won't cheat on me but it just feels uncomfortable knowing they still follow each other

man relationships are so cringe. imagine your great-grandpa reading this crap

>>33451684 (OP)
If you know she won't cheat, then drop it. Your feelings are you know valid or whatever but you just got to sit on em rather than controlling your gfs social media

>>33451890
this

>>33451890
okay lets say I just let it be, then like how do I get over this feeling of discomfort? should I just share with her that it makes me uncomfortable and tell her not to do anything? I normally bottle things up and that's never worked for me so I'm seeing if I should be communicative about this while also making it clear I'm not asking her to change her behavior. I just want her to understand me

>>33451966
You can try, but it is something that is hard to convoy properly to a partner. I'd recommend telling friends you feel this way and see if that helps