Anons, do I pick a gal from a poor family? I'm not from a rich family mind you. She earns well, she wants to support her parents and siblings. Parents are not working. What happens post marriage? Does she help me with buying a house? What about saving for a college fund or helping the family if I get sick? What happens when she's pregnant and wants to stop working?

I never thought I'd ever think about money as an issue. WTF is this crap?

>>33479347 (OP)
What one woman won't do, the next woman won't either. Pay your own bills bum and stop trying to use women.

>>33479347 (OP)
While this is not something you should ignore, it's better to focus on how much you like her and how much you want to be with her. If both of you are earning, you'll always muddle through somehow. The main question is whether she is the person you want to be muddling through *with*.

>>33479395
Bruh I earn double her.

Bumpu, can someone answer my stupid question?

Bump bump

>>33479347 (OP)
What do you value more? Earning potential or your sanity. Getting with a girl from a poor family will be way better for your sanity in the long run because a woman's expectations of what their husband should be providing are mostly informed by what daddy was able to bring home. That's the real hypergamy.

>>33479347 (OP)
Why not focus on if you love her or not?

>>33484602
Love is not real, relationships take work. I'm not sure if I should proceed.

Bumpu

>>33479347 (OP)
You either do without or you work harder. This is how life is for the poor brother.
>Anons, do I pick a gal from a poor family?
That's up to you. I'd say if she's a good woman (willing to cook/clean, takes care of her looks and body, is affectionate and humble, loves you, ect) then go for it. But idk maybe you can land a rich babe who's just as good idk your situation.

>>33485969
I'm not poor, but I didn't want to discriminate against poors. One of the rare things is I think she's a virgin, she rejects mainstream media and doesn't post on social media. There are too many positives, but only downside is I'll have to take care of her parents and siblings if she gets pregnant. I was ready to take care of my potential wife's parents say once they turn 70. This is just too early. I don't even have a house and I'm paying for strangers to neet? It'll probably never be reciprocated desu ne?

>>33486003
Are her parents disabled? Why is she taking care of them?

>>33486192
Not disabled, from what I understand, her father was into manual labor, once she started earning, she's the one funding the family. I don't have all the details. It's a bit difficult to press on, she seems a bit sensitive on this topic.

>>33486003
>I think she's a virgin
You think or is she truly a virgin?

If she is a virgin, and helps her family out, it doesn't matter if she is poor, you stuck gold.

>>33487434
>Not disabled, from what I understand, her father was into manual labor, once she started earning, she's the one funding the family. I don't have all the details. It's a bit difficult to press on, she seems a bit sensitive on this topic.
Said that, he family sounds very parasitical, and if you marry her, they will probably try to leach her off and leach you off. It's okay to help out someone, but to be the breadwinner and have to finance her brother, father and mother? Go to hell with that.

You will marry this girl, but you have to men up, and you won't concede in this matter. If they try to parasite you, kick them out. Don't give them a single penny. Really

>>33487475
Her brother and sister are in still at uni so I don't mind her helping them, but parents is a bit much. My dad won't take my money. He's too proud for that.

Also pretty sure she's a virgin. I do feel like I almost struck gold.