Thread 33479551 - /adv/ [Archived: 11 hours ago]

Anonymous
8/9/2025, 1:09:18 PM No.33479551
ColdApproach
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On a post about cold approaching, this was the only input from a girl. What do we think, is it good advice?
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 1:16:30 PM No.33479569
Redditors aren’t even mentally ill like “he has problems”, they’re straight up mind broken. You’d come across as a massive unrelenting autist at BEST with this and at WORST come across as a fucking CREEP.
t. Someone who passed a girl a note in high school
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 2:33:32 PM No.33479773
>>33479551 (OP)
Let's put it this way.

You're letting down both a girl who potentially would be over the moon to date and have sex with you and yourself in order to avoid inconveniencing a girl who doesn't like you and thinks you're a loser for 1 minute.

Learn to be a bit selfish and put yourself first. Sure don't pester a girl if she doesn't appear interested but that's more for your benefit since you're saving time and effort that would otherwise have been wasted.

TL;DR: You don't owe random strangers shit, look out for number one always.
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 2:38:19 PM No.33479792
This is illegal where I live, if the girl feels offended. you can be fined up to 150 euro.
of course most girls won't get angry enough to call the cops on you, but all it takes is 1 call to the emergency line and you're fucked. it's too risky.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 2:44:13 PM No.33479811
>>33479551 (OP)
No
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 5:12:01 PM No.33480139
>>33479773
sensible.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 5:48:06 PM No.33480274
>>33479551 (OP)
I won't read ATOGA escapees.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 6:32:09 PM No.33480431
>>33479551 (OP)
The way you approach women doesn't matter. Dating has never been about a specific place or approach.
If you're attractive, you can get women anywhere: streets, work, school, gym, etc.
If you're ugly, girls will reject you everywhere.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 6:40:00 PM No.33480466
>>33479551 (OP)
I don't trust anyone who says "easy peasy", unless it's a jolly old grandma talking about her favorite baking recipes.

Maybe I'm whatever-sexual, but cold approaching always seemed like an insane concept to me

>This girl is hot, or she has a nice face
okay, so what? I'd rather be with some mid 4/10 who has the same lifestyle and interests as me than some 8/10 complete stranger who's probably into katy perry and watching football games.

If you're some absent-minded normie chasing after basic normie girls then it makes sense, but cold approaching as a sperg or autist seems like a double nightmare.
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 6:56:04 PM No.33480536
>>33479551 (OP)
>when I do it, it works great!!!
Women are so fucking oblivious holy shit.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 6:58:19 PM No.33480543
>>33480466
Where do you go to find autistic girls?
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 7:04:24 PM No.33480559
>>33480543
No such thing as an "autistic" girl past the age of 20
All the weird girls in HS become social normies in college
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 7:08:18 PM No.33480572
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>erm, just give her a note, it worked for me, easy peasy
Reddit should be the last place to get romantic advice top kek
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Anonymous
8/9/2025, 7:41:18 PM No.33480714
>>33480543
depends in the kind of autism, anything from renaissance fairs & larp groups to just used bookstores.

>>33480572
as a whole, reddit is still one step above 4chan but there's still plenty of dogshit advice
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 8:16:30 PM No.33480846
>>33479551 (OP)
>What do we think, is it good advice?
It's good advice for women approaching men.
Anonymous
8/9/2025, 9:29:47 PM No.33481162
>>33480572
>>33479569
Thanks, good advice. From now on I'll get my relationship and romance advice from the mentally ssound people of 4channel.org
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Anonymous
8/10/2025, 12:22:36 AM No.33481895
>>33481162
You bet Anon!
Anonymous
8/10/2025, 12:56:48 AM No.33482047
>make cards with my name and phone number
>go to club
>hand them out to every girl I see
>go home
>wait for pussy to call
Ezpz lemon ez
Anonymous
8/10/2025, 1:00:01 AM No.33482069
>>33479551 (OP)
This girl is giving bad advice. It’s barely better than doing nothing at all. In dating, women are PASSIVE, unless you’re some kind of top 1% specimen. No woman is going to take time out of her day to contact some random Joe Schmoe first. You have to get her number so you can send the first message, hope she replies, and eventually set up plans.
Anonymous
8/10/2025, 12:27:08 PM No.33484536
>>33479551 (OP)
This will end up with your phone number being used to troll you.
Anonymous
8/10/2025, 12:38:33 PM No.33484566
>>33479569
Redditors don't exchange numbers they meet at "Reddit parties" and exchange u/
Anonymous
8/10/2025, 3:12:30 PM No.33484823
>>33480466
>I'd rather be with some mid 4/10 who has the same lifestyle and interests as me than some 8/10 complete stranger who's probably into katy perry and watching football games.
lol no you wouldn't, this is the same mega cope that every anon who is scared shitless of talking to strangers uses to pretend like they totally don't wish they could get over their social anxiety to get hotties
also having a girl who is exactly the same as you in everything gets tiring really fast especially if you're an actual autist who wants his me time and would rather his girlfriend have other interests so he can get it