How can I become a milf hunter?

Firefightermaxx

>>33479573 (OP)
The married milf's sexuality is her economic role, essentially her exclusivity to her husband is what she trades to be exempt from participating in wage labor.
She grows to resent this - essentially her sexuality has become her job.
She simultaneously craves liberation and fears the loss of her social safety net- marriage.

Become the opposite of her husband, a liberating force, sensual, good looking, forceful, uncalculating, generous

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=TsoLb-E7oy8&t=50s

https://tubitv.com/movies/100009374/the-romantic-englishwoman?start=true&tracking=google-feed

>>33479573 (OP)
American Pie and porn have ruined a generation of young men
I interact with attractive 30+ mothers all the time. Single mothers, unsatisfied ones, GILFs, etc. Have several of them as my insta followers. I have thousands of followers on my linkedin (I'm a startup founder) and lots of tem are MILFs.
And you know what I've found? In this day and age, they play WAAAY more games than young women. At least with the young chickypoos, you can tell when they're being serious and when they are playing games. Older women have some delulu perception that their mileage means something, that their Masters degree and having sucked a dozen cocks in college so she has "experience" means she's somehow more valuable than she was as an 18 year old virign
>>33479678
This guy has some shit of a dick of what he's talking about, the only thing is he's excluding the reality that women are humans and most humans are cowards, so they will flirt and tease and lead you on but do all but cheat on their husbands so they can get tingles while not losing their bread ticket.

>>33480350
>Older women have some delulu perception that their mileage means something, that their Masters degree and having sucked a dozen cocks in college so she has "experience" means she's somehow more valuable than she was as an 18 year old virgin

I think you’d be correct if the women you describe had male brains. That would make sense. Women aren’t male though, so don’t expect them to think like we do, through a place of pride or ego. It ain’t that.

Older women are acutely aware of their vulnerability, their lack of options, and their loss of desirability, so much so, they will reject young bucks with a fetish every time. Why would they do that? Didn’t I just state they are self-conscious and feel undesirable? Why wouldn’t they jump at the gun for validation?

Cuz they’re not us men. They don’t think with their pussies as we think with our dicks. They aren’t as easily satisfied like us, an orgasm isn’t their end goal. They want something much, much larger. They want security, consistency, and dependability. They don’t want just 1 orgasm, they want 100,000. In other words, they’d want to make sure the guy stays around after he cums. For years. Decades. That she is worth it enough to get the man to stay forever. And women eventually learn usually after their 20’s that horny men dont stick around, they fuck off eventually. And if they do accept a horny young guy, they know young guy pumps and dumps, or if he stays, she will have bagged a retarded autistic guy who is more child than man. She wont get hot sexy dependable strong man who will fix her car for her and sleep in her bed for years as a husbando, she gets another child instead. And she wont want that.

>>33479573 (OP)
the women I see on dating apps about 50% of them are single mothers

>>33479573 (OP)
Get a job and a car and make yourself actually useful to a milf. Buy her kids groceries or something. Give her some money or help her with things she needs

>>33480401
NTA but what can I do to be specifically more attractive to a milf? I unironically look like a Chud and I lack a lot of assertiveness so I had no luck with them. What would be the ideal man for a milf?

>>33481550
>NTA but what can I do to be specifically more attractive to a milf? I unironically look like a Chud and I lack a lot of assertiveness so I had no luck with them. What would be the ideal man for a milf?

A useful one, that’s what they want. They don’t necessarily care about what you look like. They care about what you can do and are capable of. They want capable men, men with skill, men with craft, men with discipline, men who get shit done.

I saw two older women gush at a guy the other week at work. They work with young guys too, good looking ones. They dont give a fuck about those guys. Barely talk about them or acknowledge them. The only thing they are interested in is knowing if the young guys got a girlfriend yet, cuz they think its cute to see young boys starting their life.

But what got them gushing and fawning was this: a plumber. middle aged guy. Workplace had a situation, the faucet pipes blew open, water pouring everywhere, milf ladies screaming in panic. Plumber who was on speed dial immediately arrives, he’s late 30’s, kinda chubby, not fit, not handsome. Not ugly, just ‘eh’. He calmly wrenches the pipes, fixes the problem, water stops spurting everywhere. He did it so cooly and calmly, then walked off.

Those milfs at work wouldnt shut up about him for the next hour.

“I just… FFUCKING love a man who gets stuff done!”

“Mhmmm same, oh my lord, did you see how he…”

and so on.

>>33481573
>He did it so cooly and calmly
So is this important too? I'm very anxious and neurotic so that definitely hinders my performance in all aspects of life

All of what you said makes sense, so I'm realizing I need to do a lot of work in order to become that person but at least now I know clearly what I'm doing wrong, thank you Anon

Also, I know you said that appearance is not everything and they care more about if you can be helpful and reliable but how could I physically make myself more appealing to them? Do you think they lean towards a specific type of man physically speaking?

>>33481606
>So is this important too? I'm very anxious and neurotic so that definitely hinders my performance in all aspects of life
Probably not a lot. The women didn't actually see him handle it cool and calm. I did. They saw him walk into the kitchen area of work tho, and within a minute or two, walk out of there with a job well done. They swooned at the fact he handled it effortlessly.

>Also, I know you said that appearance is not everything and they care more about if you can be helpful and reliable but how could I physically make myself more appealing to them? Do you think they lean towards a specific type of man physically speaking?

I'd say just don't be a fat slob, don't need to be super muscled, don't be a starved skinny skeleton either. Only common taste I see among them is they love gruff guys. Aka guys with a beard. Usually it's a short beard, not quite stubble, not quite full bushy beard either.

Dress code may be important. They like men who dress for practicality. Pants with a belt, button up shirt. Nice tidy jacket. Wristwatch, leather wallet. They love men in suits a lot. A nice tie.

But honestly speaking don't bother chasing MILFs. The one you want in your fantasy is just fantasy. They exist but you won't get that exact one you want from trying to hook up like a teenager. You can only get them through marriage, finding a girl your age, marrying her, growing old with her. Then you get the real deal.

If seek unmarried/divorced/cheating MILFs, you won't get the ara ara~ experience you are looking for. Because older women who fuck younger guys tend to be fucked in the head. They tend to be very emotionally immature and batshit, that's why they seek young guys, cuz they still feel young inside. So if you fuck them it won't feel like you fucked a real Milf. It will feel like you fucked a teenager who just happened to have saggy skin and wrinkles.

>>33481672
Makes sense, I guess my main issue would be that I do look like a skeleton too so maybe gaining weight and muscle would be helpful even though it's complicated to bulk as someone like me but I feel emasculated by being this frail and vulnerable

And I agree, it's very likely that the fantasy will only be that, a fantasy. I guess my main problem is that I fed that fantasy too much and now it's the only thing that sexually arouses me. It's almost as if only older, large breasted women could make me aroused enough to have sex. All the girls my age I managed to attract had significantly smaller breasts and I ended up flaccid and I wish there was a way to fix this because it's like you are saying, even if I achieved that fantasy it would leave me hollow

>>33481704
Big breasted girls are obtainable. They are just skittish. They know they have big boobs. They know guys hit them up just for their boobs and not their personality. Just pay attention to a big tittied girl's personality and you got a shot.

>>33481732
What about making yourself more attracted to smaller breasts? Is there a way? I haven't met many girls with big boobs in real life, most of them were on the internet but I met flatter girls so I would want to make myself more attracted to them, is there a way in your opinion?

>>33481782
Yeah theres a way, just date one long enough and you’ll normalize it.

larping thread, did not acknowledge when I said literally 50% of women on dating app are single mothers. You really want a milf? Milf= has kids

>>33479665
this unironically.

i knew three boomer dudes who's wife left them for firefighters.

>>33479573 (OP)
i would also suggest personal trainer.