>>935872064
Well you've got to start somewhere, and at 32 is prime time because you're about to reach your prime in about 5 to 7 years.
a) Social skills are a skill. So any resources on how to improve would be a great start. You want to start people watching. Paying attention to how people behave, how it works for them, how it might work for you, what doesn't work for you, what you might want to steer clear from.
b) You want to dress in a way that shows that you give a shit about yourself. Sure, that can be things with collars, good belts, nice shoes. Or if you do hit the gym and start taking yourself, it can just be a t-shirt that shows your muscle definition underneath.
How can someone be expected to care about you when you don't care about yourself?
c) You want to get some girl friends, friends who are girls, who talk about popular shit so that you can get a better idea and a better feeling of what's going on. Not only that but by having girl friends other girls put the defenses down lower around you because you've been "chosen."
d) You want some friends. Like bros you can actually hand out with. Do things that keep you busy.
e) You want to get really damn good at something that other people can readily see and think is cool to see you do. Could be many things, but it's something you gotta choose for you.
f) If you can find a bro who is just an obvious fisherman. Like just hooks the girls like it were nothing? Befriend that guy, buy him a beer, talk to him, learn from him. Nothing I can type here can measure up to being in the presence of a legit Chad willing to help a Chad-in-training.
Lastly, take notes, have a journal. Keep it somewhere nobody can see. Digital is fine so long as it's password protected. Keep it easy to read and easy to sort through. Let's you go back, see what you were thinking, what was working, what wasn't working and gives you a better idea of if you're headed down the road you want to be on or if you've gone astray.
