>>935928662 (OP)I'm gay, I'm a bottom, and I can say that size matters. If you got less than 3 inches, then you're not going to reach past my ass cheeks, and it just won't work. We can still suck each other off and have a good time that way, but it's not the kind of fun I'd like to have.
Also, there's a lot of dudes out there with huge donkey dicks, but you'd be surprised how often they can't get fully erect, it's all half mast, it feels like they're pushing rope than railing my ass, which isn't very fun. I'd much rather have an average dick that's hard as rock, because at least then I'd feel it.
Would I much rather have a donkey dick that's hard as a rock? Absolutely. Well, here's ANOTHER thing dudes do: they think their dick carries.
They'll talk all day about how huge their dick is, and yet they can't fuck worth a damn. They ram at the speed of sound, cum in 2 minutes, pass out, and leave me wanting more. I can't tell you how often I've had those same guys say "Did you have a good time last night?" the morning after, brag about how good they fucked, and disappear. Would I much rather have some 3 inch cock who wants to fool around more than that? YES!
Here's ANOTHER THING you guys need to keep in mind: If your dick size anxiety prevents you from trying to hook up, then you'll NEVER hook up! There was a straight guy at my job that was so damn worried about his dick, that he never hit up the clubs, spent friday nights all alone, and was just miserable. WHY?! I knew how cool (and cute lol) he was, but that damn anxiety, jesus, just fucking stop it already.