Thread 936032924

can girls tell that i haven't had sex in 13 years, and that's why they don't like me? or is it because i'm fat and unemployed?

>>936032924 (OP)
It's likely a lack of confidence. Learn to love yourself in a sane, balanced way if you want others to love you too.
That's how it works.
If you do not care for yourself, we can all tell, male or female.
You could probably tell too, at least when looking at others.

>>936033680
you are so fucking full of shit

>>936033680
you think life is a game....well it isn't

>>936033680
GO BACK

>>936033833
dubs of truth

>>936033680
Bahahahahaha I love myself so much you wouldn't believe, women only want money.

>>936033833 dubs
>>936034004
>>936034283
>>936034507
It's the truth. If you want others to love and respect you, you must love and respect yourself, otherwise you're going to be acting like an awkward, depressed loser.
People sense that.
Sorry I upset you, but until you learn to appreciate who you are, no one else is going to give a damn about you either.
that's the truth, accept it or not. It is.

>>936034691
fuck you....no one is going to accept you no matter what, you could do everything you could possibly do to make people like you and they still wouldn't respect you, all people care about is their own selves because people are scum

>>936035667
>all people care about is their own selves because people are scum
Maybe they sense this evil in you, and so they reject you before they even know you. I wonder why you even care about finding anyone, since you seem to hate people.
Find balance in yourself. Learn to respect others more too if you want it to be reciprocated. Same with love. If you want people to love you, you must have love for them.
I thought it was the other way around, and you were someone too shy and unconfident, but if anything, you are too full of yourself to appreciate others.
So they try to avoid you. If you find someone like you, maybe who would appreciate you more.

>>936036342
girls avoid me because they think i'm shy and awkward, i mean i am awkward, but i'm not shy at all, they just assume that i am and act accordingly, they don't know me like that but they think they know me like that, they aren't interested in getting to know me better

>>936036707
Work on yourself. You have to make changes in order to get what you want, like a change in posture to reach up and grab fruit. Learn to be flexible, and teach yourself how to handle yourself well in social situations.
It takes effort, but what doesn't?>

>>936036813
fuck you again....most people don't have to "work on themselves", they just naturally have it in them to be sociable and un-awkward. you sound like my dipshit therapist. evolution isn't a thing, by the way.

>>936032924 (OP)
would you date a woman that is like you? work on yourself first, noone wants to date someone that just adds extra baggage to their life

>>936037608
>most people
You are not "most people". You are you, whoever that is. You have to make the best of your own situation.
Stop comparing yourself to others, and learn to live your own life.
>evolution isn't a thing
Sure, but adaptation is,a nd you have to adapt to meet the situation head-on. Imagine not wearing a jacket or carrying an umbrella during the rain, yet you complain about being wet.
Adapt. You are free to do so.
>the -rapist
Waste of money. Work on refining your faults. Examine, and correct yourself relative to the situation.

>>936032924 (OP)
>sex in 13 years
>they don't like me
>fat and unemployed
OP, I thought I was alone but now I know we are many. We are one. We are Legion.

>>936038169
>Stop comparing yourself to others, and learn to live your own life
i don't compare myself to others, i'm just objectively shit

>>936032924 (OP)
OP, don't listen to this femanon. >>936033680
Do cool stuff and tell everyone. If you have money, buy gifts for women you want to ride. Aim low, very low. Once you get back into the dating pool then your quality and quantity of women will increase dramatically.

>>936038585
yeah i've noticed women don't actually know what the fuck they're talking about

>>936036707
>girls avoid me because they think i'm shy and awkward
Girls avoid you because they don't believe any other girl wants you. As soon as they see you with another woman they will stop avoiding you. It is very similar to "Entry level positions - 5 years of experience required". Life isn't fair, stop crying about it.

>>936039012
go kill yourself

>>936039012
is this really how females think?

>>936038374
>i don't compare myself to others
>most people don't have to "work on themselves"
Pick one.
You do compare, and that is why I criticize.
>>936038585
>femanon
Wrong and by the way you type and accuse without reason, you seem insecure. Buying people through manipulation may work short-term, but until anon correct his own flaws, he's fucked.

>>936039164
>You do compare, and that is why I criticize.
nope, just an objective assessment
>Buying people through manipulation may work short-term
nah, that shit can work for a very good while

>>936039236
>an objective assessment
You say it as though you should have what they have, and you were comparing your situation directly to their own.
>a very good while
You miss the point that if you "buy love" or affection or admiration, it's not real. in the end, you have nothing of value, because nothing you have is earned. It's instead bought.
I think you want something more than that, but that's your own to figure out.

>>936039135
>is this really how females think?
No, this is the way "most" women behave. Fair or not, single men are seen as more likely to be personally dangerous for the woman. It seems like a reasonable assumption if you have nothing else to go on. There are a few other reasons that a individual women might see or use being single as a negative. We (men) have our arbitrary red flags as well. Sex partners (body count) is one. That means the *jobs as well you dumb whores.

>>936039164
>Wrong
Nah, I'm right. You have no pussy-pass here.

>>936040611 doubles
>implying
Wrong man.
Anon, you're ridiculous, and you seem insecure. if anything, you read as being effeminate due to the fact you are causing unnecessary drama in order to bolster your own sense of self.
>images may imply you are black
Many anons here say blacks are more likely to be like you. Trying to cause upset and drama for their own sense of self-wroth. Big if true.

>>936040915
>Big if true.
Yes, big if true.
Your thread is dying. See ya!

>>936032924 (OP)
yes

>>936041683
Why do you "think" it is my thread when you were talking to Op while projecting your insecurities onto me earlier in this thread?
There's no logic in your post anon. If anything your jimmies seem rustled by my comments earlier, since they go against your own "purchase love and friends" ethos.
Chill out, and learn to see value in more things than money and the material world. My advice to you. Leave it, or roll with it.

>>936033680
>>936034691
"just be confident in yourself, bro"

>>936036707
>i mean i am awkward, but i'm not shy at all, they just assume that i am and act accordingly
you have a superpower, use it wisely

>>936042335
Maybe so. it is easier for good-looking people, but that shouldn't stop you from being confident and happy with who you are.
That wasn't the point either.
The point was if you don't care for yourself, not one else will. I've seen ugly guys with the hottest females.
So find faith and respect in yourself if you want it returned by others.
If you give up, and wallow in self-imposed shame and grief, then yeah, that's going to drive people away.
Stop making excuses for your own misfortune, and embrace who you are, faults and all.

>>936042469
that is actually great advice