Thread 936165390

I'm pretty sure my ex has borderline personality disorder. Anyone experienced with BPD chicks can tell me if it's likely? I'm just curious as to what the fuck is wrong with her
>flips out if I don't want to talk on the phone for more than 15 mins
>flips out if she feels like I'm talking to my (guy) friends more than her when we're out as a group (and has no issue losing her shit publicly over it)
>used to get mad if I wanted to go to bed when I had work the next day but stopped doing it kind of
>threatens to come over when she's pissed off at me despite me saying I don't want her over
>quit her job and wouldn't find another one, always came up with excuses as to why she wasn't urgently job hunting despite having no money
>bad relationships with family members
>can't seem to hold on to many friends
>heavy drinker but thinks she can hold her weight (she can't)
>would start the most insane, stupid arguments over nothing and ruin our good time in a split second
>crazy levels of gaslighting, and she was good at it too
>literally believes in angels, demons, the Bible, karma, soulmates, tarot cards and shit but claims she is spiritual not religious
????????????

>>936165390 (OP)
Grim

>>936165390 (OP)
>I'm just curious as to what the fuck is wrong with her
sounds like its not your problem anymore

>>936168800
checked. Nope she isn't, I dumped her and my life is way less stressful now. Just wondering if anyone other anons have experienced something similar and have any insights

>>936165390 (OP)
>The DSM-5 outlines nine key criteria for BPD, and a diagnosis typically requires that an individual exhibits at least five of these symptoms:

>Frantic Efforts to Avoid Abandonment: This includes both real and imagined scenarios of abandonment.

>Unstable and Intense Relationships: Alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.

>Identity Disturbance: Markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.

>Impulsivity in At Least Two Areas: These areas are potentially self-damaging, such as spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, and binge eating.

>Recurrent Suicidal Behavior or Self-Harming Behavior: Such as threats or gestures, or self-mutilation.

>Affective Instability: Due to a marked reactivity of mood.

>Chronic Feelings of Emptiness.

>Inappropriate, Intense Anger or Difficulty Controlling Anger: Frequent displays of temper, constant anger, or physical fights.

>Transient, Stress-Related Paranoid Ideation or Severe Dissociative Symptoms.

Sounds like BPD to me. Some weeks it was fantastic, others are as you described, just bat shit crazy.