I'm pretty sure my ex has borderline personality disorder. Anyone experienced with BPD chicks can tell me if it's likely? I'm just curious as to what the fuck is wrong with her
>flips out if I don't want to talk on the phone for more than 15 mins
>flips out if she feels like I'm talking to my (guy) friends more than her when we're out as a group (and has no issue losing her shit publicly over it)
>used to get mad if I wanted to go to bed when I had work the next day but stopped doing it kind of
>threatens to come over when she's pissed off at me despite me saying I don't want her over
>quit her job and wouldn't find another one, always came up with excuses as to why she wasn't urgently job hunting despite having no money
>bad relationships with family members
>can't seem to hold on to many friends
>heavy drinker but thinks she can hold her weight (she can't)
>would start the most insane, stupid arguments over nothing and ruin our good time in a split second
>crazy levels of gaslighting, and she was good at it too
>literally believes in angels, demons, the Bible, karma, soulmates, tarot cards and shit but claims she is spiritual not religious
????????????

>>936174863 (OP)
Sounds like a basket case

>>936174863 (OP)
Im so sorry for you dear anon
BPD isnt negotiable, you just turbobang that chick on the good days and tolerate her drama on the bad days,
JUST KNOW she isn't gonna change, she can go to therapy or take their meds but that ain't gonna fix her mood changes nor her bullshit, Like anon says a basket case.

>>936174863 (OP)
If she's on birth control that could be it. A girl I know was on it and it screwed with her hormones so bad she basically went crazy. Got diagnosed BPD, but as soon as she stopped taking it she went back to being level headed.

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>>936174863 (OP)
>my ex
You should not be connected or worry about this person anymore

>>936174863 (OP)
Is your ex latina?

>>936178980
This

>>936178980
Agreed. Why is this retard still concerned about his ex?

>>936174863 (OP)
She is your ex. Do some push-ups and move on.

>>936174863 (OP)
Sounds like a retarded nigger

>>936179332
yeah she is

>>936174863 (OP)
Learn from this relationship.

If your NEXT gf seems similar to this girl, STOP and ask why you are attracted to this personality type.

>>936174863 (OP)
sounds exactly like my Ex. Yep, your ex has BPD. as another anon said, there's no changing that. Honestly? rip the band aid off, cut contact with her. I know the the sex is absolutely mind blowing, but it's just not worth destroying your sanity. If you keep her around, and try to find another girl? she may try to sabotage it. Remember all the red flags, and make those your boundaries for future women.You have my sympathy if you have a kid with her.. If not, RUN. And never look back. She. Is. Not. Worth. It.

>>936181838
good call lad. I appreciate your advice