We've been together since highschool, im 22 and he is 21
We always had a low sex drive, and ive always been sort of a horny freak
But we always managed, even if he didnt feel like fucking me, we would make out, maybe hed finger me, let me blow him or jerk him off
But recently it all just stopped
Nothing at all
He still hugs me and kisses me and we cuddle but thats it
We talked about it and he said he just hasent been interested in sex recently and really doesnt want any sort of stimulation on his part
He even offered to finger me every once in a while if its a problem for me and
Thats very considerate of him and i appreciate it but at this point i just feel like a creep forcing him to touch me

Dont even suggest anything like cheating because thats not him at all
He doesnt even like people at all to begin with
We ve been together for almost 6 years now, im his first girlfriend and hes my first boyfriend
Im not breaking up with him over sex of all things, our relationship is much more than just that
But got
I do feel upset about it and miss having a good time with him in bed :(

wash your asshole, faggot

>>936333455 (OP)

>don't mention cheating

I think deep down you know it and that's why you denied it before anyone could say anything

>>936333455 (OP)
What do you look like? Maybe appearances?

>>936333656
Well, I'm a transwoman.
He's very liberal but I'm starting to suspect deep down he's very transphobic

>>936333656
Max from life is strange is a pretty close match, my hair is black tho

>>936333608
Even if it was cheating i still think i wouldnt break up over it
Id still be very hurt
But thats really not him, ive never met anyone who genuinely dislikes people like he does

>>936333455 (OP)
Can i fuck you please
Also has he been working a lot? Or maybe he does have sexy thoughts but just not about you, doesn't have to be cheating. Have you changed your hair or maybe gained some weight? There is always _some_ underlying reason. Really depends on his day-to-day, what does he do, how does it make him feel? Also can i fuck you please?

>>936333742
?????? Im cis no trans

>>936333776
Nvm read youre trans so maybe also keep in mind that the male brain is very easy to fall into comfort/easily makes you think that this life you have now, together with your bf, is something worth fighting for, even though there's a whole world out there that you're not engaging with, that can give you much more than what you're getting. Also you're 22 you're a child dude i understand it's nice to feel like you're settling in but no stress

>>936333776
Hes been really busy with college, everytime hes home he goes straight to studying
Getting a chemistry major and all
Hes kinda behind on math and is really trying to make up for it
Everything else about our life is well, we chat about our daily life, we cuddle, do dates and stuff together
The only different thing relationship wise is that his sex drive just seems to have completely dried out

As for me i did gain a little bit of weight but ibe alway been skinny so the only visible chante is that my boobs are a bit bigger now
For reference
Im 1.64cm tall and weighted 57kg
I used to weight 53
I used to dye my hair an strawberry blonde kind of color and now im keeping it black
Not much changed about my appearance besides that

>>936333902
Im not trans tho, idk why that person said that :(
I know its silly but we have such history together and we match each other so well
Breaking up over him not fucking me just seems petty

>>936333957
a 21 year old man just doesn't lose interest in sex. he is fulfilling his sexual urges some other way. likely porn or cheating.
you need to do some snooping and see what he's getting in to. just be forewarned--there's a high chance that he's a closeted fag and/or pedophile.

>>936334071
It's gone far enough for you to resort to 4chan/b I think you should be honest with yourself and with that also think of yourself. It's not egotistical to be hurt by the lack of sex in a relationship. It's a real thing that really does change the way you feel and approach life. Sad but true. Maybe go on a trip or go out partying by yourself/with friends, so you can feel more in tune with what you want opposed to what the relationship wants

>>936334100
I did catch him jerking off one time a while ago but didnt think much of it
I don't mind him watching porn and masturbating, its never been a problem and we even did it together a few times in the past too
But hes just never been much interested in sex at all
Kinda like he doesnt need it or doesnt like it a lot or gets bored of it

im black and jewish btw, in case that helps

>>936334260
it's just not normal for a 21 year old to not be interested in sex.
so he is probably just not interested in sex WITH you. not trying to hurt your feelings, just giving you the tea. he's probably homosexual.
check out his browser history

>>936334260
Yeah there's definitely something going on with him. You have to talk to him proper, and he needs to feel like he can say everything. do you live together? Maybe hes started seeing you as a roommate/fallen out of lust?

>>936334260
Sounds like good advice...
It has been a while since i had a girls night too, maybe ill do it, thank you

>>936334289
No i look like max from life is strange with black hair, stop lying

>>936334464
Great can i fuck you please

>>936334401
We've been living together for about a year and a half now
I do feel like our dynamic has been more of a best friends or roomates rather than lovers refently
I told him that and he apologized and said hed try to be more affectionate
It could be that tbh... how could i even fix something like that?

>>936333455 (OP)
>>936333781
Tits and timestamp. Otherwise, we'll all assume at best case scenario, you're trans.

>>936333455 (OP)
Wtf newfags, Tits and a fucking timestamp before you get anything from this.

>>936334630
Take the girls trip, get a bit drunk, get him nervous. Make him realize what he's risking losing

>>936334557
i bet youre not even anywhere near me tho
But
Even if you were, i dont think having sex with someone else would help my relationship very much rn hah

>>936334717
No but it would help you

>>936334717
Honestly big chance having sex with someone else is gonna make you realize it's also not all Bad, you've just been dry for a long enough amount of time to make it bother you

>>936334681
>>936334714
Fine here my boobs
What does it even matter really?

>>936334714
I guess youre right
Ill do it tonight

>>936334849
Delicious now show face censored

>>936333455 (OP)
Maybe there's an underlying health issue affecting his sex drive?

>>936334924
OK gerne

complain on 4chan and get pressured to show Tits on internet my dick is diamonds

>>936335148
Gerne?

>>936335003
Uh no sorry thats too much

>>936335129
He did comment he wanted to get his T levels checked out a few weeks ago
Maybe I should bring it up again just to be sure

>>936335212
Not the first time ive complained about something here and posted pics
I know its standard procedure atp
I don't really have anyone i can talk about this tho so 4chan it is
No, he doesnt mind me posting nudes
I used to sell videos before, which, he filmed.
That is not the problem here

Glad at least someone is enjoyng my tits tho...>>936335212

>>936333455 (OP)
I know this doesn't help, but I'm on the other side. I'm happily married but don't want to fuck. And not sure how to deal with it.

>>936335350
Oh xD well
At least i know im not the only one
I hope you and your partner find some comfortable middle ground

>>936334849
It matters because there are no women on the internet. It's the tax for claiming to be a woman on the internet. It's the tax for using the fact you are a woman to get help from us. You've paid the tax move on.

>>936335350
Then get off your whiney bitch shit ass and just fuck once every few days. Just do it it's gonna be fine when your dick gets stimulated you're going to be happy that you're fucking. Worst that can come out of it is that she wants to have sex more, which you can just downplay into her sucking your dick, which is always good

>>936334849
Ass

>>936333455 (OP)
Hi anon, going to give you the best advice you can ever have. Which is to start figuring out what might have changed on a physiological level.

1). First, check his hormones/testosterone levels. Something is off. You don't have to jump right to getting a test or a doctor involved but start analyzing everything. Diet, is he sick or has he been sick recently, is he stressed or exhausted from something specific? Did he start a new medication? did you start a new medication?

Start trying to narrow down things and try changing up parts of life. Get multivitamins and encourage him to have some nightly and see if his mood changes, get him vitamin D. Change his diet to be healthier and include more red meat.

Humans are complex chemical reactions. Look for causes first before you start listening to any retards in here saying it's cheating.

>>936334849
Tits arent enough to prove you arent trans

>>936335350
Hi anon, same advice. Probably some vitamin/diet/stress/medicine you're taking that's killing your drive for sex. Think of it less as not wanting to have sex and more of a symptom of something being wrong, and look for the cause because that's only one symptom of many that you may not be noticing.

>>936335706
>>936335650

And also, i cannot stress this enough. Your environment can be causing this in ways you don't even realize. Next time you stay somewhere else for a few days see if your attitude/mood changes. If its noticeable start going through everything in your home that can be giving off smells, or causing a negative reaction.

Molds, Laundry detergents, cleaners or air fragrances, carpets that smell a little too much like an old dog. The oddest and most benign things can cause entire household moods to shift and most people don't realize they're physiologically susceptible to these influences.

I hope anons here (and husbands!) get happy and healthy in the future and have the slightest more awareness of personal environment and chemical influence on health.

>>936335916
>>936335706
>>936335650
Those are great thank you so much

>>936333455 (OP)
>>936334849
Great tits OP. I'd love having you ride me on a routine basis while my hands were all over them. Your bf is missing out.

With that being said, Is there any possibility that your bf is a gooner and his dick/brain have become desensitized to anything that isn't the fictitious material he likes to cum to? If that's the case, he needs to be saved now while he's young

>>936333455 (OP)
Grindr, faggot