what if i really wanna hang out with somebody but we were already together 2 out of the past 3 days. it would probably be inappropriate of me to ask for it again right? so i'm just really hoping that they ask me to hang out instead. but what if they also feel the same way i do, so they would wanna hang out but they don't wanna ask for the same reason i don't. what should i do? i just don't wanna be annoying or bother them. what am i supposed to do in this situation?

>>936589954 (OP)
some people have a hard time initiating. if you want to hang out with them, ask to hang out. no need to overthink it.

wait a bit. you're going to seem clingy or desperate

>>936589954 (OP)
It would definitely be inappropriate, especially if they're the type of person to reject closeness or become aloof out of nowhere. These people are actually crazy, so I wouldn't get mixed in with them, but if you do want to continue your relation with them you should tread very carefully. They don't wear their hearts on their sleeves but they have very sensitive skin (especially if it's a woman); they want you to believe they are not vulnerable but they WILL get offended very easily and suddenly.

Take a few days or week break before the next activity.

>>936590128
I guess. But is there a limit to this? Because i want to hang out with them every single day.
>>936590268
I guess i am kinda desperate. I do spend about all day every day waiting for the next time we meet.
>>936590377
I'll be honest this post confused me a bit. I don't exactly get what you mean.

>>936590478
Anon, listen carefully. If you find yourself saying the wrong thing and you don't know how you did, it's a red flag. If they're like loving you one moment and then they don't love you the next, it is a red flag. Women are always talking about these red flags for men, and how men are so terrible and why women need to rise up against oppressive men like on LMN movies or Law & Order. These women are mentally ill. They will hide it very well, and many, many men will be fooled by them. They're obsessed with the attention, they will have social media accounts where they show off to hundreds of other men while also rejecting them, they will have children that they raise alone, cats that they treat like their children, etc. Watch out for them. If you encounter one, do not engage or attach yourself else it will be your demise.

>>936591103
i'm sorry i really don't get it. i don't think this is an answer to my question.

>>936591884
It's up to you to get it, by experience or not.

You should give it some time before the next time you hang out. Being consistent at spending time away from that person is the best thing you can do at this point.

>>936592012
no spending time with her is the best thing i could do

>>936592136
I....tried to save you, anon....

>>936592195
she's not a demon or something dude. she somebody that i have known since birth, and that i really enjoy spending time with. and i'm just wondering if i should be asking to go out more often or not. if it's okay to or not.

>>936589954 (OP)
make heart eyes at them

>>936591103
>>936590377
you are lost in your own problems. none of that features in OP's situation.

>>936591884
don't worry. there is nothing to get. that anon is hallucinating. ignore it.

don't just ask "to go out" in general. they/she/whatever can't easily refuse such a blanket offer.
ask to go out for something specific. then they can refuse and say they're not in the mood for that.
if they do that, do not immediately follow up with something else they'll have to refuse.
if they want to spend time, and it's just the specific suggestion, they would suggest something else to counter.
always give people an "out".

>>936596607
oh that would've been smart. but i already just asked if they wanted to go out like 2 minutes ago. waiting for a response now. but can't they just refuse this as well? why would it be easier to refuse a more specific offer?

she hasn't responded in 15 minutes. should i kill myself?

>>936597113
it is time
wtf get help

>>936597425
she texted right now. she said no. it's definitely time.

SHE SAID NO

help me please she said no.

what do i do?

i'm panicking help please

somebody say something please

beep

>>936600125
Hello?

next time you meet, say "I missed you"

>>936600652
last time i said that after we hadn't talked for months when she was away she gave me like a sarcastic "aww" and she didn't even say she missed me back. she probably hates me. i should kill myself.

>>936600759
sounds like friend zone.
find someone who's into you.

>>936601205
She's my cousin

>>936601320
ok then keep at it, wear her down, get her drunk, make babies