>>936768436I would definitely recommend ripping the bandaid off for some things, though I do regret not taking my time with other kinks/requests. In general you can rip the bandaid off for kinks that are more common. For example, im so degenerate that it never once processed in my mind that handcuffs might be too kinky for some people, so it was a huge shock when a friend of mine told me they considered that to be too much for them. I knew I wanted picrel to fuck big dildos so I just ordered one online and surprised her one day. I blindfolded her and bent her over, I ate her pussy out but honestly I had no idea what I was doing compared to now (not that it's very complicated, I just wish I had been better prepared is all). She was kind of freaked out and started asking what I was doing, but once she took off the blindfold she soon began to cooperate and even made some hot comments. She used to need coconut oil or lube to comfortably fuck the first dildo I got her, but the dildo from picrel is about the same size as her first dildo and she's gotten very comfortable over time. For things like threesomes or maybe racial play, I'd recommend taking that shit very slowly because most girls aren't at coom brained as we are. I got my girl to start watching porn. At first she would parrot the common feminist opinions on it, but now she looks forward to watching big dick porn. Most importantly is to always make her feel loved and important and not like you're using her body even though inherently she must succumb to you in order to fulfill your desires