Thread 937163089

Is it bad that I still resent my parents for not saving me from being raped as a kid, and them not supporting me after?

>>937163089 (OP)
No, you're entitled to feel that way.

>>937163089 (OP)
Depends, how would they have saved you?

>>937163089 (OP)
Help you? Support you? How long is it going to take for you to realize what a lousy stinking piece of shit you really are? You deserve nothing, which is all your worth. If you were on fucking FIRE, I'd hand you an ashtray and keep walking.

>>937164181
:(

Unless they were slutting you around against your will or ignoring the things you said were going on then probably yes for the first part. As for what you mean by support don't know quite what you mean. Not trying to comfort you when you are experiencing a reasonable yet significant about of distress is a failing as a parent. If that failure was out of indifference or laziness then yes resentment seems reasonable.

>>937164181
uh oh, retard alert. not to be political but you sound like a troon
>You deserve nothing, which is all your worth.
>your worth
>your

>>937163089 (OP)
Greentext?

>>937163089 (OP)
it isn't
but whether if it's bad you're not trying to get past it, depends on whether if they actively caused it like another anon said, or if they actively harassed you over something you had no control over
If they did neither of those things, try to let go, beg for their understanding and tell them that you want to move on and be master of your life again...
If they did do the first, they are not your fucking parents, even if you share blood with them, that is not something a fucking parent does
If they did the second, and they refuse to change, you don't have to keep them in your life