>>937368092As guys or humans in general we have expectations sadly. For example, you are expected to be smooth in social interactions and seductive/flirty to get with many women to learn what you like in sex and dating. I held out on that bc of true love like a fucking idiot. You gain nothing being serious in a meta of hedonism. The people fucking around will gain experience and leave you behind ironically, and forget about finding a partner who values personality enough to overlook being boring at that age. Donโt fall into nice guy stuff and think that other people care if the person they fuck is morally suspect. Also, sex comes before actually getting to know the person so heads up on that