How do I get a gf if im a smelly incel?
Take care of yourself and put yourself in uncomfortable social situations.
Get a haircut, shower daily, find some cologne and deodorant that isn’t super strong or off-putting (no drakkar noir or old spice). Brush your teeth, style your hair, groom your body hair and nails. This is 90% of the reason girls find a dude unattractive. You have to put in the effort to present yourself as a suitable partner.
Then, start taking steps to put yourself out there. You think a girl is cute - then ask her about herself (in a non-sexual, everyday circumstance). Like “what do you do for fun?” Or “What’s your favorite book/TV show lately?”
This shit is relatively simple. Show interest in them, and interest in taking care of yourself. Society’s changed, but the female psychology hasn’t. They want someone capable of providing, who shows interest in their well-being.
Get a haircut, shower daily, find some cologne and deodorant that isn’t super strong or off-putting (no drakkar noir or old spice). Brush your teeth, style your hair, groom your body hair and nails. This is 90% of the reason girls find a dude unattractive. You have to put in the effort to present yourself as a suitable partner.
Then, start taking steps to put yourself out there. You think a girl is cute - then ask her about herself (in a non-sexual, everyday circumstance). Like “what do you do for fun?” Or “What’s your favorite book/TV show lately?”
This shit is relatively simple. Show interest in them, and interest in taking care of yourself. Society’s changed, but the female psychology hasn’t. They want someone capable of providing, who shows interest in their well-being.
