Hey anons, need some advice
>have amazing gf of almost 1 year
>her and I both feminist and leftists
>always respectful to her
>generally vanilla sex, but she does like me to be “dominant”
>comes over to place
>As she sees me, she exitedly starts talking
>”hii anaon! I’ve missed you, and guess what? Just the other-“
>as a joke, I cut her off in a southern accent saying, “shut the fuck up slut, I didn’t invite you over here to talk, you’re here to serve me. Now get on your knees”
>obviously a joke, no?
>she went silent and got on her knees
>what??
>i quickly stop her and explain it was a bit
>both embarrassed
>I inquired why she did that and tell her I’ll always be respectful to her and she should never put up with sexism
>she explains it turned her on?
>apparently she has a bdsm misogyny/conservative kink?

So thats the issue. I’m happy to support and engage in her kinks, but I don’t know if I should. Would it be sexist of me? I’m honestly not that comfortable with the idea of purposely mistreating her and being conservative and sexist. But it is apparently one of her biggest fantasies so idk. Also, I’m not even sure how one goes about being sexist?? Do I just be an asshole? I figure you guys would know.

Also! We both come from conservative families, her even moreso. The most ive tried so far is slapping her ass which she seemed to like?

Also also i forgot, the beautiful photo attached is her! For context and such :)

>>937491454
this is a larp but post more of the girl in the pic

>>937491562
Okay

>>937491562
It’s a bit dramatized. she knew I was joking but kneeled anyway somewhat to further the bit. It kinda just so happened that she also had the kink

>>937491608
?? Who is this?

Anyway, I’m thinking of going forward with the whole, being rough kinda thing, and just politely declining on the being sexist part. Is that wrong of me?

>>937491228 (OP)
Seems like a fun way to act occasionally, but in my experience, doing kinky stuff all the time ruins the appeal eventually.

>>937491901
you can do whatever you like but why wouldn't you just do it all? just talk to her the way you did the first time. can't be that hard.

she has nice tits.

>>937491806
My goon queen.

>>937491944
Well ofc i wouldn’t be sexist 24/7! Lol
But just doing it occasionally in prestated times does sound better. I think i could do that.

I still worry why she might have this kink. If it comes from self hatred and internalized misogyny aren’t i just adding fuel to the fire?

>>937492154
getting scared by a roller coaster or horror movie isn't the same as being in actual danger. humans like exploring fear and similar emotions in safe ways.

post more pics.

>>937491990
Maybe but I still feel like I’d fuck it up. Am i meant to tell her she belongs in the kitchen?? I know some sexist stuff i could play into, but not that much i dont think? Like the only insults i can think of are rude names like “bitch, whore, slut”, and being generally demeaning.

>>937492339
tell her what to do. make her bring you a beer and blow you. if you did it once, why can't you do it again.

Post her nudes

>>937492321
That makes sense. I don’t mind sharing pictures of her because she’s awesome and I don’t mind showing off, but also don’t be creepy about it. Should I be worried what you guys are doing with these pictures? I cropped them so you can’t see her face, i figure that makes them safe to share. Right?

>>937492504
Of course it is safe

Share her without clothes too

>>937492385
Sorry, i get anxious about these things and worry imma fuck it up. As you can probably tell. I’m mildly autistic so I like to plan ahead a lot before doing things.

I don’t really like beer that much, but I could order her to make me a meal? She does love cooking.

>>937492626
just google misogyny kink and copy shit.

the beer isn't because you like it, it's because it plays into the shitty masculine dom stereotype,

>>937491228 (OP)
I bet she'd enjoy getting slapped while she blows you

She's a closet pervert with that wants you to dominate her. This is a gift. Her obedience is a big glowing sign that you're missing. Be rougher during sex, when she blows you make her deep throat you. Use her body anyway you want during sex, she'll love it.

>>937492701
Ig that makes sense lol! I do some research

>>937492504
Nudes of her please

>>937493148
Seriously? Thats feels too much like wish fulfillment on my end than pleasing her. Or is indulging my desires and just using her and being rough what she wants??

>>937493513
I really don’t think she’d appreciate it if I spread her nudes out to the internet. Selfies are one thing, nudes another

>>937494211
She wont know just post them

>>937494211
>>937491228 (OP)
because women want to be dominated without being shamed. Treat her like a whore, just don't judge her for it.

Be a total chad and demand she wears slutty or revealing clothing on her instagram account.

>>937492154
Don’t overthink it. My gf is perfectly respectable and from a good family, but still likes to call me daddy while I pull her hair sometimes. Sometimes I think she just wants to be/feel like a slut.

>>937494360
Ew, no.

But anyway, this kind of sexist talk, (while gross) is kind of helpful? I guess? In terms of ideas in how to engage with my gfs kink.
Actually if you guys could, a like, rundown of what misogynists believe beyond “women bad and belong in kitchen” might be helpful. Like what possesses one to become a sexist?

>>937494266
Im not sharing her nudes it’s a shitty, sexist thing to do. And yes I do see the irony given her kink

>>937494789
Lame

>>937494719
stop being a faggot worrying about sexism and bullshit when you're having sex. Sex is about fun and exploring what excites you. You don't win any points by pretending to virtue signal.

Treat your girl like a slut when it turns you on, treat her with respect when you aren't having respect. It isn't hard, stop blaming yourself for your own desires.

>>937494789
it's only shitty and sexist if she doesn't want it.

>>937494968
Yes but I don’t know if she would be comfortable with me sharing her nudes. Her being into being mistreated and such I don’t think gives me permission

>>937494944
I’m not a fag. And yeah sex is about fun but it’s also important to please my partner, not just engaging in my own desires. And it’s always important to be respectful and such. I can’t just do whatever I want

>>937495160
sounds like that would be mistreated and she'd be into it.

Share some nudes without her face for now, and later tell her what you did and see how she responds. Worst case scenario, she respects you for being a chad and taking control and you don't do it again. She'd respect you more that you took charge rather than pussyfooting around.

>>937494789
Loser

>>937494789
>>937494719

I agree with you anon. Do you want to talk elsewhere? I have a similar situation with mine and won't share because it's a shitty disrespectful thing to do. But I feel it would be good to talk to someone about it. Do you have sess or something?

I had an ex who really wanted to be dominated so I have some other experience too

>>937495280
Do girls seriously respond well to that stuff? I mean she likes it when I’m assertive, but this really feels like I’m crossing a line. I mean taking the private nudes she sent me and sharing them online is like, i mean would she really think it’s hot and me taking charge? Or just get pissed and think me an asshole?

>>937495526
Nice to see I’m not alone. What’s sess?

>>937495664
session, but really anywhere to talk off of here so we can be open. Obviously no sharing of nudes

>>937495608
It's shitty if you put her safety in danger. Show her face clearly visible or easily identifiable tattoos, and you'd be putting her in danger and that'd be shitty.

Show off her naked body without identifiers? Treat her body as a cum dumpster for your own masculine pleasure? If she likes being called a slut, she'd love to be treated like one.

>>937495840
Well… I mean she did ask for me to be sexist and treat her like a slut. She’s kinda asking for me to give into my desires and abuse the fuck out of her for my own pleasure. Right? So it’s only fair if I start to treat her like one.

>>937496456
she would if you actually treated her like a slut. Thats just her flashing her tits, she should be naked. That would really turn her on if she likes to be treated like a slut

>>937496456
Fuck, I hope I don’t regret this. Too late to to back now anyway. Should I just fully embrace my desires next time we meet to try it out? See how she responds when I give it and treat her like an object? Im kinda thinking I might as well atp

>>937491228 (OP)
HAHA
Anon learns that girls like to be treated like shit.
Literally all of them are like this
It's pretty great
Start finding and pushing her limits. If you don't someone else will
If you think the sex is vanilla, she probably does too

>>937496890
Your only regret will be that you half assed it. You kinda look like a pussy only showing her flashing her tits. A real chad would strip her naked

>>937496890
Anon do you have any place to talk off of here? I really want to discuss this stuff with you but I have to go

>>937491228 (OP)

>>937497098
In for a penny, in for a pound. I guess there’s no point half whoring her out. I probably shouldn’t but she did ask for it, so here

>>937497159
I have a telegram, @fluttershy_nerd if it matters

>>937496456
>>937497348
fuck off you larping faggot, there's a thousand pics out there of assymptote, and have been for years

This whole thread is a larp, reads like a female college student doing some kind of libscum research.

>>937496456
dude, that's an OF slut

Another faggot too stupid to not get caught in his autistic faggotry...

>>937491228 (OP)
If she wouldn't have that tattoo I'd swear it's one of my exs

>>937498526
what tattoo?!?

>>937491228 (OP)
You’re a femanon, tits or GTFO