>>938012031
It's not a big deal unless you are asking someone for access to their pants and even then only three reactions can come from it.
Reaction 1 the person is into it and gives you chance to romance them, reaction 2 the person isn't into you or don't swing that way and politely rejects you and reaction 3 the person hilariously overreacts, acts super insecure and clutches their pearls like a Karen who is finally faced with the once in a lifetime opportunity, to loudly exclaim "Oh, won't someone think of the children!" in righteous indignation without having to spare a second thought about it.
The 3 reaction is always good for a laugh.
But yeah, announcing that you are gay is sort of like announcing that you are currently breathing these day, most people are just like "No shit, what else is new".