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The past couple weeks I’ve been mirroring my girlfriend’s behavior.

If she gives me attitude or overreacts to something, I immediately do the same thing in response. I want her to see and experience her own behavior.

Do I expect this to be successful?

Absolutely not. She hasn’t been enjoying it so far.

The other night we were dancing at a friends wedding. A few times I started to get close to her and she would push me away. Once she even held out her hand in a fist and I walked into it. I waited until she started getting close to me and I did the same. She immediately went and sat down for a while until she calmed down.

We were good the rest of the night and she didn’t say anything about it Sunday. But of course she brought it up last night.

I’m tempted to reveal my strategy to her but I know that won’t go well. I figure it’s better to just stop and either leave or put up with her bullshit.