Thread 938113628

Is life better if you avoid women? Seems it's 10x more stressful than being alone, but then again it's stressful dealing with FOMO on romantic experiences

>>938113628 (OP)
avoided women most my life and it is a sad, empty existence

>>938114429
don't you think that's how it is for most/all people anyway?

>>938114429
I kinda feel like its worse with em, the time for a while is good at some point it just sucks being around them in my opinion

>>938113628 (OP)
marry a loner/quiet woman
we only talk during meals
and we have offices on opposite sides of the house.
shess there when it's time for raaping

>>938115097
at least with a woman in your life you have some companionship and the chance of getting your dick wet

>>938113628 (OP)
If you're not tall, dark, and chadly then you're better off just pretending they don't exist. Go number 3 as needed, get it out of your system, but don't obsess over foids or put them on a pedastel. They are stupid, selfish animals who only carry about social status and perceived power of potential partners. If you don't check their retarded little boxes, you're invisible to them and they will make you feel like shit for making them aware you exist.

>>938115119
Is that even worth it? I mean you could lose half your savings. Personally I have a few bitcoins and I'm hoping they'll be worth a ton more in a decade so I can retire by 39 years old at the latest.
Also if the wife works a job there's almost no chance she'll cook very much or feel like fucking. If she doesn't work then she'll prob just spend a ton of your money on bs

>>938115525
she makes a shit ton of $$$, like 4x me (and im a engineer consultant)

>>938116931
i have been alone for 4+ years

When you find the right one, its great. It's not supposed to take work. Compatibility is key, as is trust and communication.

>>938113628 (OP)
The grass is always greener where you water it. Whether you want a woman in your life or not, you'll be forced to make accommodations you don't want to make in order to receive benefits you don't think you can live without.

>>938113628 (OP)
not really because 5-10-15 years in you'll be hit with the big sad lonely feels. There's only so much constant nictoine, weed, pills, or alcohol can do to hold it off. Ultimately, it is inescapable.

BUT you can avoid the pitfalls of a lot of women by learning to use your BRAIN when selecting a woman to have a serious relationship with. The horror stories of psycho women or men trapped with basic vapid women are because the guys focused primarily on the woman's sexuality before it was too late.

if you decide to get serious with a woman and all you're thinking about is being excited for hte next time you fuck her pussy, you've lost and you're blindly committing (which is what many manipulative women will count on because that is what they're truly trying to secure, a new daddy).

Women who just fuck any guy are rightly not respected at all so why should any woman respect a guy who's willing to instantly commit to almost anyone?

>>938113628 (OP)
You have to do whats best for you .. are you wanting a family or a life of debauchery?

Do you want a mix of the two? Be honest with me. What are your life goals?

You can make life work both ways

men who commit to women are all complete faggots, it's a mentality i can't understand and don't want to understand because i'm nothing like that, if i'm with a girl and she thinks i've "committed" to her then fine, but she would be mistaken in every instance, with any girl

>>938122896
>i want brown teenage boys to validate me online because i have no companionship in my life. please tell me im a good boy, fellow brown peers

>>938123595
nigger what are you talking about

My wife is autistic, she is diagnosed. She is very high functioning, has a masters degree.

Plus side:super meticulous about our finances and bills. She loves handling all that. She likes to clean. She has a good job and works part time, but still has full time benefits. She pulls in about 50K and still has time to be a housewife. She never fights or causes any drama. She is always super chill as long as she isn't triggered by anything.
She takes care of herself and isn't getting fat.
I trust her completely. Been with her 14 years. We have had 2, maybe three bad fights ever. Last bad fight was in 2020.

Cons: She is an emotional robot most of the time. No passion. She has 1,000 things she can't stand like fish, olives, certain shows etc. Navigating the million things that trigger her can be exhausting. Sex is boring. Sometimes I tell her it feels like we are just best friends and not lovers and I wish she would show a little passion.

>>938113628 (OP)
no

>>938113628 (OP)
Don’t settle for less and jump on whatever pussy comes your way. Remember some bitches are always single for a reason.

>>938113628 (OP)
I can't speak for everybody here, but I get a lot of fulfillment from video games and media like anime