>>938361211
It's been known to happen. It's one of the few reasons I keep coming back haha.
I was a depressed loner in a trenchcoat long before it was cool. Losing my v-card at 19 was a fluke. I thought I was unlovable.
I stayed with the wrong woman for way too many years because I thought being "in love" was a myth born of teenage hormones.
I was damn near 40 when I fell in love for real for the first time in a very very long time. We're married now and have an awesome little dude. Don't let the blackpillers get you down.
Coming to terms with the reality of reality - whatever you land on that being - goes a long way toward helping you find the next step and that is being at peace with yourself and who you are. There are elements of yourself that you can and should change, and elements that you can't and shouldn't. That's up to you to figure out what that is. And it's not easy and it can't be done overnight but my God is the work ever worth it!
You don't achieve a long-term fulfilling relationship by finding someone who completes you. You become complete and then find someone else with whom to share your completeness.
Also disregard like 99% of what other people think of you. And also recognize that 99.999% of people don't even know you exist.
The people you see on social media living their best lives and achieving things you could never achieve are an illusion and they curate what they show to you. Never compare yourself to them or anyone else.
Not sure what other sage advice I can cram in here but definitely hating yourself and believing you're going to be lonely forever does absolutely nothing to help you.
