Thread 938417472

She texts me, I respond

She goes away, I don’t care

Not particularly a chaser personally

I go back to confusing on myself, my studies and my health

I think she’s finally gone but she comes back through a different mean

I respond and she ignores again

What is her end game?

The last hit was the nastiest, she told me she would call me but she never did

Then when I saw her in person I forgot about it but she didn’t and immediately apologized

Is this deliberate? Perhaps a humiliation ritual?

>>938417472 (OP)
You're a grown ass man. Leave this whole mickey mouse whatsapp texting bullshit game for teenagers. Cut her off and move on

Go back to focusing*

She doesn't really like you, but you're good enough to be a guy she strings along as a back up/wastes time with/gets attention from while waiting for the next guy. You not showing too much interest annoys her because you should be "wrapped around her finger" by now yet you're not. How is this possible when she's "so out of your league".

She doesn't register it but this is what it is. If you fuck her, fuck her, but never bend your knee to her she will up and go away so quick. If you can find a way to have other women see she gives you attention that will get you their attention and then go for that more serious chick. This will destroy her btw she will say how she thought it was you two against the world and how could you do this but if you leave the other girl for her she'll just go back to stringing you along.

Tldr use her if possible but jump ship when something better/worthwhile comes along as she's doing the same with you but stuck on the first part of that process

>>938417623
You’re right,

There is no time for this bullshit anon, we’re gonna ascend.

I still care about her, and like her. So I am not going to block her. BUT, I am not going to text or reach out to her in any way neither. I am already cold in texts, I only respond coldly when she texts first & I don’t chat further. I thought that this method would make her leave me alone but it makes her more clingy and obsessed. Yet blocking her also feels so wrong and personal, she’s a good playful childish person in real life trapped in an adult body, meaning she probably won’t take kindly to me blocking her. Maybe she would feel hurt too. Maybe I should just put her notifications on silence

>>938417670
My guts tell me that you’re right.

I really don’t want sex, my libido is non-existent due to depression and I rarely visit this board or look at porn in general. But I come here occasionally for advice because I know that the majority of people here are other men like me (I don’t take advice from women, not because I am a misogynist or I necessarily hate them, I don’t, but because they are emotional and don’t think in logic, & sometimes they lie so it’s not worth the hassle) and 9 times out of 10 you guys are on point so yeah. I think I will just mute her notifications, not block her because blocking her will cause a potential confrontation from her part. She will either confront me IRL or try reaching out to me in a different way like another platform.