Thread 938493445

Do and women actually reply on these fucking things?

Even the ones who leave a like first, I give a heart-filled reply and it's like I'm shouting into a void. Why bother if they have no intention to talk?

Online dating is a minefield, and women have no pressure compared to the men.

Make sure your profile is as interesting as possible, be funny as well as flirty and hope for the best. On average it's 1 reply in 10. Probably lower in most guys case.

Good luck.

>>938493445 (OP)
I couldn't bring myself to leave one of these installed on my phone for more than 11 minutes, idk how you guys do it lmao

>>938494115
Honestly I'm just doing it to chat with women. I will take a date if one happens, but it's more social/flirt practice. I know few women in irl right now to do so with.

Or at least it would be if they actually talked.

>>938494181
I see. Best of luck to you.

if you’re a guy, dating apps are only useful if you’re a gigachad pussy slayer or a weak little beta bitch boy fine with women walking all over you. why the fuck would any self respecting man try to market themselves to women’s sensibilities on an app unless they’re objectively desirable already or just hoping some woman decides they like them for some reason?

the entire concept is flawed because it assumes women have any higher order thinking when it comes to selecting a partner and the vast majority simply don’t. they either want self validation by being good enough for chad or they want a bitch boy that fits into a neat little box they’ve already got constructed in their mind of what a relationship looks like, which is incredibly vain and one sided.

spare yourself the disappointment and/or humiliation, the odds are astronomical you’ll find a decent woman on an app. unless you’re a chad, then by all means go pump and dump to your hearts content if you’re into that sort of thing.

>>938493445 (OP)
i've been using these apps for nearly 2 years and am yet to even have a conversation with a girl yet. i am cooked

Honestly you have to lie and be someone you aren't. Unless you come off as larger than life, you won't stand out.

All women have to do is doll up for a photo or two, make a profile with a few interests and get flooded with likes. Even the ugly ones get some.

Chances are you're just in a huge list and she'll always have what she perceives to be more interesting people talking to her, or she'll never even get to you. Just remember, it isn't personal. The odds are just heavily in the woman's favor for success.

The only advice is keep trying, and pretend to be more than you are until (hopefully) you meet and can be yourself again.

also, women aren’t men. don’t assume they engage in good faith like you do. always assume they’re going to fuck you over until proven otherwise.

With your goals you might be better with Bumble.

That one reverses the roles, you make the profile and women must make the first move.

Chances are the women won't be as good looking/are desperate but that might be what you want, since you want to flirt and probably get into a quick relationship.

>>938494740
wrong anon, it hasn't been like this for at least a year, it's basically a tinder clone now