>>938519953 (OP)
Not in debt to anyone but I'm thankful for the older men I've worked with for helping reinforce my perspective.
Grew up believing in waiting for marriage, many times I've been in positions to not. A few times I've had happily married men give their input about it.
None of them said they wish they or their wife slept around more before meeting each other but they did say that having exes and sexual partners have strained their relationships and their conscience.
When you've had men happily married for longer than you've been alive giving you a one on one heart to heart telling you you're doing something right for yourself and future wife and to keep at it, it's something you'll be grateful for forever. Especially when you're doubting it and have opportunity.