Thread 938648161

HOW ARE YOU DOING TONIGHT

I’m in the middle of a huge fight with my mentally ill girlfriend, I’ve sequestered myself in the living room and am drinking alone all night while thinking of what’s going to happen between us in the morning

Bump i need someone to talk to

Last bump come on

I'll bite, put down the booze it doesn't fix bad times. It only makes good times better. What other distractions do you have? Any good areas nearby for a night walk?

>>938649752
Yeah I live downtown in a major city
She’s watching my location she doesn’t sleep
Im drunk but just finished my last bev it’s only 12:34am
Do i nightwalk
Do i brush my teeth and go to bed, do I get back in bed with her or sleep in a different room?

you need to get out of that relationship. go for a short walk

>>938649817
If your well drunk already I'd say sleep. As for where, I don't know the full situation. What does your gut say?

>>938649817
drink extra water to prevent hangover

>>938648161 (OP)
"mentally ill" is so vague that it's useless
what's her damage specifically?
>Im drunk but just finished my last bev it’s only 12:34am
>Do i nightwalk
dunno, how much do you want a public intox charge?

>>938650055
I could sleep next to her but i honestly don’t know what would happen
Could be anything sex/fight/talking/her leaving

Wouldn’t be able to get to sleep anywhere else and im out of drinks so im fucked unless i pull an all night, but surely we’d break up when she wakes up and ive been up all night
I don’t necessarily want that unless it makes sense to me based on what she says
>>938650047
I know but I dont want to the sex is insane and we relate on levels it wouldn’t be possible to find elsewhere

>>938650161
You can't watch the original Mortal Kombat movie while doing sick karate moves in the living room to burn off the booze, then crash on the couch? Talk to her in the morning with a clear head.

>>938650161
well would you rather want to be on eggshells throughout your relationship? or find someone better? and yeah your statement is vague, what else has happened?

if you think shes gonna break up with you what are you scared of? being alone

>>938648161 (OP)
You give up the booze for good from this moment onward, and tell that fucking whore it's over and she needs to figure out where she's going to live because you're out of there as soon as possible.

>>938650366
this is ideal.we dont know the whole story

>>938650397
>if you think shes gonna break up with you what are you scared of?
nigga don wanna sleep on dat bomb ass poonanny, ya hurr?

>>938648161 (OP)
Your own damn fault for sticking your dick into crazy. We tried to warn you.

>>938650568
100%

>>938650543
there's better bomb ass puss out there

>>938650672
You sound like you’ve never had a mentally ill gf

>>938650568
>>938650627

"Ulysses wanted to hear the Sirens' song although he knew that doing so would render him incapable of rational thought."

Idk what other people do when they wake up but before I even wake up my brain is thinking about how awful my entire life has been. I've been more resilient at times but the last few years have sucked. But after I get my mind off everything I start to feel a little better. I'm watching they live and idk doing more reading and researching random shit like always. I was wondering what the biggest cities/metro areas by area were. Then also by population and GDP. The Dallas area is in the top 5 of all of them so idk I guess that's good to know for some reason

>>938650695
yeah thats not the ideal

>>938648161 (OP)
I'm doing good. Hope things go better than you expect tomorrow.

>>938650718
Dudebro just needed a good deaf wingman to make sure everything stays above board.

youre a whipped ass bitch

>>938650808
Why aspects of that interest you? Learning more about your area, just the raw numbers of what people are up to, or what?

My thing is I'm a word nerd. I love looking up the origins and roots of words. For example when vikings raided the British isles they might have referred to dogs as "kurra". At the same time a Gaelic speaking person might call it a "cú". Pretty dang similar for people with different language roots. I find that kind of stuff very interesting.

>>938651135
What we are attempting to be for our friend OP.

>>938650695
I've been married to the mentally ill gf. Red head nurse with big titties and a tight body. It was NOT worth sticking around. Crazy girls are worth one night stands and cutting contact immediately after. You can't even have them as FWBs because they'll become obsessed, stalk you, and hunt you down if you try to leave.

OP drinking after an argument and then trying to make something happen is never a good idea. Best bet is to go to sleep.

Questions to think about (that you probably won't remember if you haven't passed out already):

>Is this a normal occurrence in the relationship?
>If it is, why do you think it will get better?
>Do you want to spend your days in back-and-forth turmoil, where you fight, drink, make up, and fight again?
>Why do you put up with it?

Advice I'd give you if this is a normal occurrence:
>Break up. It's hard, but it's better for the both of you because you aren't compatible
>Don't leave the break up open ended. Make it clear it's over and don't look back
>Allow yourself to grieve and stop drinking to dull the pain

If this is rare to fight like this, then have an open conversation about what happened WHEN YOU ARE SOBER. Don't let it fester and create resentment

>>938651161
>different language roots
the "Gaelic" speakers of the time would have been speaking Old or Middle Irish at the time, depending on when the raid took place
the Vikings would have spoken Old Norse
while Old Irish was a Celtic language and Old Norse was a Germanic language, they're both still Indo-European languages, where Celtic and Germanic are Indo-European subfamilies
if you really want to cook your noodle, reflect on the fact that the Old Irish word for mother was máthair, and the Sanskrit word for mother was matha, and the ancient Greek word for mother was μήτηρ, which is méter, transliterated into the Latin alphabet