>>938731510
>how do I not be this guy?
Can't believe nobody has said this yet, but the answer, like most things in life, is KYP: know your personnel. Also known as check the scouting report, or check the resume. Look at the dude in the webm. He's a fat autist who looks like he doesn't shower every day, and he's in his 30s and it looks like his only hobbies are video games and maybe magic the gathering and Warhammer 40k. This dude is natural pussy repellent for 99% of women in this world. That's neither good or bad; in fact in my opinion they're probably looksmatched, but this is 2025, a fucked up world we live in, and I'm simply telling you how it is. This guy should have KYP: he should know all those things about himself. At this point in his life, he needs to know that he can only attract 1% of women in this world; probably fellow fat smelly autists like himself. If he just KYP, then he'd know not to even bother approaching 99% of women, and certainly to not approach them on camera, and especially not on camera broadcasting to the internet where people will make fun of him until the end of time. What's the best case scenario in his situation? She blushes and he looks like a chad on stream and they start dating and live happily ever after? Low percentage gamble. What's the worst case scenario? He looks like a dipshit and people laugh at him forever, aka the exact thing that happened.
How you avoid being that guy is this: if you look and act like him, do not under any circumstance approach 99% of women in this world for any reason, and certainly don't do it on live stream. Bing bang boom, you've avoided being that guy. Congrats. Harsh? Yes. Hash, but fair.