Thread 938881455

No matter what I do, gym, booze, other girls
I always end up thinking about my ex.
>tfw blocked her everywhere
>tfw still dream about her
bros, do you ever actually get over it
or do you just learn to live with the void?

>>938881455 (OP)
Yes, you get over it. You forget about her. And then about that time, she'll call you up and say she still thinks about you sometimes.

>>938881473
getting over her is just accepting that she's gone and letting go

Have you tried waiting for about a year?

How about porn

>>938884267
not op, but for me its 8 months now

>>938881455 (OP)
>do you ever actually get over it
Mentally no, biologically no.

Zoomers called it men's first love theory but it's just bullshit women said to pretend it happened to men and not women and didn't effect whores. The truth is emotional attachment is emotional attachment. You're not going to forget memories and truly forget your time with someone. Even if they're abusive, you'll carry the result of the relationship for the rest of your life.

Biologically your pheromone tolerance weakens with every partner you have. You'll always have the strongest connection with the first woman you was with. You could be happily married for 15 years with children but thanks to chemicals, you'd never love your wife as much as you could love your first girlfriend. You'd still feel strong emotions and love but physically not as strong as it could be. Vice versa too, it's something that happens to everyone. Men and women.

>>938886224
Yeah sounds about right, you'll get over it soon.