>>939069595
Don't let them know they are fat, unless they are the kind that is happy to advertise their saggy tits and thick ass and poke fun at skinny girls. They might've been just in the past and might just withdraw thinking you are trying to prank them or something.
>way too desperate
Don't see a problem, they are willing to do more in bed and if they are mentally unwell or insufferable, ghost after clapping their cheeks and take your newfound sex experience. Everybody has an embarassing first sex story, nobody will think of you less for it.
I got a hooker who was way out of shape compared to her pics, loose af like thrusting into a glass of warm water, lazy and depressed because her bf left her because of her putting on weight. I told her it was my first time, she called me a nerd loser, but diligently sucked me off and swallowed. A few days later I found out I had that fucking mexican covid years before the big covid, coughed for months, still had first sex out of the way though. It was uphill from there
Just expect it to be sweaty, hard to properly reach with a dick smaller than police batton and if it's not tight enough just slam them on top of your dick and let them wiggle a bit. Sometimes I missed the pussy and fucking their folds, feels about the same lol