Thread 941027329

Went out drinking with a group of friends before it was left to just us 3. We were all pretty drunk and I started getting handsy with my wife before we all ended up back at our place. My wife managed to get him to admit hes had a tiny crush on her since we met and we decided to have a threesome. It was a pretty spur of the moment thing, we were similar sizes too so I was comfortable with it. We were taking turns, but over time I was having trouble staying hard and eventually I couldnt use it to fuck anymore at all. He "tagged in" to help me and finished her off so she could cum. By the time they were done I was able to at least jerk off onto her but I was so fucking embarrassed. He privately poked a bit of fun at me the next day and she has said she totally understands but I cant stop thinking about it. Any advice? Did I fuck up?

whiskey dick gets the best of us OP, it happens

LOL shit happens, my first mfm was a semi similar situation except the guy was hung like a horse (also much smaller than me). I had a broken toe from sports and I hit it a couple times until I could not keep it going. Ended similarly to you, just laughed about it eventually. If it's all done in the right mindset and with the right people, who gives a fuck.

Not to be rough lol but if you guys trust each other enough to be open about all this... Don't worry. Did you and her have fun ?

>>941027400
Almost never happens to me, but thanks anon.

>>941027559
If he was much bigger than me I would have hanged myself lel. Youre stronger than me. I will admit I was enjoying myself in the beginning but barely being able to get a twitch out of my dick by the end while he grunted away on top of my wife like a pig was much less fun. My wife hasnt stopped talking about it for the past few days, I think she liked the attention most.

>>941028159
Since shr had so much fun, you can probably do it again, just don't drink as much and pop a couple viagra when things start heating up. Wife and I like to swing, and since my mid 30s I've noticed I really have to watch how much I drink and make sure to have viagra/cialis handy to make sure I can perform.

>>941028485
Popping a pill isnt a bad idea but Im a little worried shell get to like him too much. Im already worried I fucked things up, Im not sure I should lean into it even more.

The fuck is wrong with you? First off your wife is a whore. It was clearly her idea from the beginning, she wanted him, and you straight up let her cuck you right in front of you and now she can’t shut up about him LOL that’s fucking pathetic bro. You fucked up.

whiskey dick and performance anxiety, wouldn't think too much of i

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>>941027329 (OP)
I had a very similar experience, except I was on the other side of this. Threesome with my friends gf and he could not stay hard.

I know he hated it at first but they managed it in a way that they took pleasure from him being kind of humiliated in the following threesomes.

It was super weird for me at first but now I think it is hot too and I can totally understand what he likes about it. If you are into this kind of stuff you could try to fetishize your bad performance.

>>941030983
My wife is kindof high maintenance and likes attention. She needs to be kept on a bit of a leash, and Im afraid maybe I let go too much. I let her dress how she wants and shes never given me much if any reason to worry until recently, but that was also with my participation so I can only be so mad. Shes not an angel, shes had a few boyfriends and flings before we met.

>>941031361
I hope it doesnt start becoming more normal.

>>941034220
I would kill to be on the other side, I cant stop focusing on how much I fumbled. Ill be a little honest at least, even though I hate admitting it. What got me hard at the end was listening to his grunts more than anything else, I dont know why.

>>941035782
Sounds like your wife is a hotwife in the making. If she likes attention and is down for being shared it's the next step. Especially if you're getting your rocks off on the sounds of her getting fucked.

>>941035956
Well what woman doesnt like attention? And her voice is beautiful and he sounded like a rutting pig, so I couldnt help but finally get hard at the contrast even if I hated it.

>>941027329 (OP)
He owns her sexually now.
You still need to worry about divorce rape and paying the majority of bills, but she’ll never think of you as sexually masculine again, ment as we’ll get fitted for a cage now.
>>941027400
It wasn’t whiskey dick, his body deeply realized on a primal he was a beta, like how in animal circles the non breeding betas get less erections and stop producing t

>>941035704
>High-maintenance woman
>Promiscuous past
>Likes to dress provocatively
>Prods your friends to admit sexual interest
Let me guess, she introduced the idea of a threesome as well?
Sounds very bad, dude. Chances are that she's going to try digging deeper into this because her pair-bonding ability is fucked and she's looking for excitement in that spark of having new partners, it will eventually tear your relationship apart if you're not some gigachad that can get pussy whenever he wants from any girl or you're not okay with becoming a cuck, I hope you guys don't have kids, best thing you can do is wait and collect evidence while she continues to pull away and file for divorce when she goes all in with another dude without your consent. Gotta remember that women are rewarded for breaking the vows of marriage with free income. If you don't have a prenuptial, you need to prepare to lose at least half your shit, best to move a ton of your assets into the hands of somebody you trust i.e. your mother or father, when she starts to do shit. Just observe for now, but when she starts to bring up shit like opening the relationship or introducing other partners into the bedroom regularly, play along but get your shit out of her reach. Would be extra sick if you could talk to your boss about temporarily firing you before/during the divorce and re-hiring you after, so you can avoid at least a bit of alimony payments.
Sincerely hoping that this was a one-time thing because of booze and sexual tension, but the stats don't lie, so it is good to be prepared for the worst, because chances are trials and tribulations are on their way to you.