>>941061882
>it is spicy and/or friendly.
Forget about the bondage you've likely been made afraid of. I think you would look lovely in black leather trim. I mean wrist and ankle cuffs, maybe a matching collar. Wrists clipped in a way you can release anytime you wish, if you wish.
This not as a punishment or abuse, but to be discovered. The pleasures that both pause and deepen your breath. Being touched in ways that both open and close your eyes. Map-making of what you most desire, enough to see your way back.