>>941654337 (OP)
The trans bathroom argument is about visual deterrent.
If you see someone who looks like a man go into a womans bathroom, whether that is a non passing trans woman or a trans man, there is a visual deterrent because onlookers can watch where you're choosing to go and be careful around you. It means that you're not socially aware enough to understand how you're perceived and just like everyone acts like when they're in a closed space with a crackhead, they're on their toes around you.
The whole situation only happens because they're incorrectly labelled. It's not mens and womens bathrooms, that was just an old morality policing of women not using the same room as men voluntarily, it's unisex bathrooms and female bathrooms.
Female only places exist to protect women. To argue against them is misogyny of the highest order.