>>941965012 (OP)
unironically this
>>941966106
I've only had one gf. The first few years of our relationship I was obsessed with her previous experiences. The first time I found out she blew other guys before me it legit kept me up for a few days. I think it had to do with some level of insecurity either in myself or in the relationship because it was earlier on.
Now we're about to get married and I legit do not give a shit. If one of her exes walked up to me and described what they did I would probably laugh, wish him a good night, and not give a shit. I think it's just as you get older, especially after your first serious relationship, you got other things to worry about and you just accept the fact that someone having a past literally has no impact on your relationship (unless there's an std). Just focus on yourself, loving her, live in the moment, and don't cheat on each other, and if you know that sh loves you no matter what you'll feel much more secure