>>942326885
this anon (
>>942328954) is right to some extent, things just really changed much down there, but i also require some pretty strong mental stimulation and not cuming for a few days to make it happen
i have focused on it a bit because the one time i accidentally did come while mostly soft... it was the best orgasm i have ever had (:
don't stroke your pp, don't rub your pp and don't let it get to the point of starting to get erect. the key for me was to jiggle it up and down quickly or play with it like its a toy until that erect feeling comes in. then take a break and do anything else that stimulates you that doesn't involve your pp, let it get back to the point of being mostly soft but not completely soft.
with some practice of this method, i was able to get to the point of being nearly completely soft and to point of feeling like i was going to cum. in this clip you can see the fews seconds my body/hand freaks out and i literally lose control, which feels fucking amazing. start with this and see how it goes, i could maybe add some more information though