back on grindr...
endlessly scrolling...
just looking...
for a bf...

>>22908851 (OP)
find youth centers
if you're the right age

>>22908851 (OP)
Enjoy your AIDS

>>22908866
>Enjoy your AIDS
its called CONDOMS and if you want to nut inside its called PrEP and wala, you didnt catch aids

>>22908851 (OP)
Grindr is for hook ups lmao

>>22908874
>Grindr is for hook ups lmao
you MAY get lucky
i had a pretty cute fwb until he moved away

back on that grind...
just grinding people up......
in a meat grinder.......

>>22908851 (OP)
There is nothing good on that site

>>22908999
checked xd
>>22909754
where is all the good stuff?!?!

>>22909754
>>22909764
>good
You're only given the closest 100 profiles, but the closest 100 that match your filters. So lets say you are a bottom and you are looking for a top you could set your "Position" filter to "Top, Verse Top, Versatile" and you could include "Not Specified" too.

Now maybe you don't want an old fart so you set age range to 20-35 or something. But you still see some potential options that you have to pay to unlock due to distance and sheer number of profiles in your vicinity, so what you can do is set age range to 20-20, then 21-21, then 22-22 and so on and so forth (or 20-23, 24-27. etc) and now you get to look at way more options

but honestly most people are just weird, like they wanna just fuck but they arent down to hang out first; they dont wanna chill then fuck when you're comfortable because my autistic ass can't just be dtf like that unless they are a 11/10 for me and im thinking with my dick and just cant say no

>>22909784
>can't just be dtf like that unless they are a 11/10 for me and im thinking with my dick
it's almost like that's what it's for.
it's a specific, filter based hookup system for men. you're supposed to find that guy who's an 11/10 to you. this concept exists for men, because men are significantly more diverse in what we're attracted to.
80% of the men are not all fixated on the top 20% of women. that just isn't reality. this app isn't for finding love, because that already exists.
it is entirely for men to hook up with other men who fit their given parameters. if it were for love, then it wouldn't need a litany of sex based filters.

it would need bios, with long character counts, and required facepics. kind of like tinder, which already exists and can only recently be competed with.

>>22909807
>it's almost like that's what it's for
but you have people that arent dtf too
like, my first meetup was going on a date with a femboy and after the date i said "hey i gotta bunch of guns in my car lets go blast them in the woods" and his eyes lit up and thats what we did. Didnt do anything gay except i hugged him. But apparently he wanted it

3 years later i still talk to him on discord. Apparently he has been bottom horny since we met and nobody has filled that desire since we met (and i refused sex since i was a virgin at the time)

>>22908999
>just grinding people up......
>in a meat grinder.......
desu i've put some very sketchy things in a meat grinder, and eaten them

>>22908851 (OP)
Just get a job… you’ll find more chances there.

>>22908987
>fwb
>bf
not the same thing brah you want a committed relationship, hell you’re probably like those hopeless romantics who want a gay committed relationship before sex. Rare, either way goodluck.

>>22909832
>Just get a job… you’ll find more chances there.
i have a job, and its work from home
>>22909839
>>fwb
>>bf
>not the same thing
i never said they were

>>22909818
didn't ask

>>22908851 (OP)
>grindr
just go outside and talk to bois in real life. that way they can’t ignore your first attempts at making contact.

>>22909816
>but you have people who aren't dtf too
those are the people who also kinda don't get the point, or maybe they're expecting too much of grindr, or what i believe is most likely;
tinder is inherently shit for men, regardless of which gender you're interested in. disillusioned by their shit algorithm, they moved to grindr.
>>22909844
>and its work from home
so does my mom, and she managed to date after dad died.
she's one of disney's telecom big wigs. she has an entire department of people to talk to at any given time. what remote job do you have where you don't report? at the very least, you should be giving one guy reports. it's to be expected that you'd communicate with your teammates, too.

>>22909881
unironically this is probably your best option.
the men won't run to HR and call you a rapist, either. worst that can happen is you interact with a guy who's genuinely not interested.

>>22909847
>didn't ask
Today is "show and tell" day so guess what nigger, i told and now im showing you

>>22909911
>unironically this is probably your best option.
but i dont go outside often, unless its my back yard

I haven’t thought about men yett

>>22910327
>yett

>>22912420
if girl spelled backwards is "liar", and liar spelled backwards is "rail", then you should only rail girls instead of being gay

>>22912424
liar spelled backward is girl
otherwise girl spelled backward wouldnt be liar

>Be submissive bisexual
>The prospects of hooking up with a woman is a barren landscape where every women selects from a 100 men vying for their attention.
>No problem, men have higher sex drives, I'll just download Grindr.
>The prospects of hooking up with a top is a barren landscape where every top selects from a 100 men vying for their attention.

wats ur discord.?

>>22912435
nah, trust me on tihs one

>>22912463
wtf is the ratio of bottoms to tops really this skewed?

>>22912463
true i guess, im a top but my body count is really low, im socially awkward, i talk to much in DMs, and im incredibly picky
>>22912467
>wats ur discord.?
whyyy u first
>>22912473
>nah, trust me on tihs one
i dont believe you
>>22912482
Apparently it is, there is a shortage of tops

>>22912486
this is terrible news

>>22912482
funny image

>>22912495
hehe

>>22912482
Yeah. Same problem in two vastly different states too. (Opposite ends of the left/right, climate, and socioeconomic status). It's not that I couldn't find someone without a bit of work, but 8 out of 10 profiles were bottoms (or begrudging switches). It'd take me a few hours or days to find a top, where I could get a bottom lined up in minutes.

It's my secretly held belief that Tops aren't "gay". They are something else on the sexuality spectrum. Kinda like the difference between lesbian and butch.

forced to top due to supply and demand
it's economics you wouldn't understand

>>22912463
trvke

>>22909839
>hopeless romantics who want a gay committed relationship before sex
HOLY SHIT THAT'S ME! AM I NOT ALONE?

>>22913636
>HOLY SHIT THAT'S ME! AM I NOT ALONE?
no, op here, i eventually lost it to a bf but it was literally day 1 "want to be in a relationship????" and i said yes, i probably fucked him within 2 days and it lasted a year