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7/11/2025, 12:10:48 AM No.22922996
Honestly, I’ve never understood why some guys lose their minds over women having a sex life in their 20s. It’s like they think every woman is supposed to sit around waiting for them, untouched, while they play games and complain online. Nobody promised us that. Nobody owes us that.
When I look at it, it’s obvious. Women have the freedom to date around, hook up, travel, have fun, and then settle down when they’re ready. Usually with someone who’s got his life together, maybe has some money, maybe knows what he’s doing. That stings for some people, I guess. Especially when they thought just existing was enough to deserve a partner.
And let’s not pretend there’s some moral high ground here. If any of us had the chance to sleep around in our 20s, we would. Most guys just don’t get the same options. But instead of admitting that, they call women "damaged goods" or say society is collapsing. Feels more like projection than anything else.
The way I see it, a lot of this anger comes from fear. When women have choices, they stop settling for the guy who’s been sitting on the sidelines his whole life waiting for someone to pick him. They pick the guy who worked on himself. And that’s hard to accept.
It’s easier to sit online blaming Chad and hypergamy than to admit it’s on us to be better people. I get why it hurts, but screaming about it isn’t going to change reality.
Let them live their lives. Either get your shit together or keep sitting in the corner mad at the world. No one’s coming to save us.
When I look at it, it’s obvious. Women have the freedom to date around, hook up, travel, have fun, and then settle down when they’re ready. Usually with someone who’s got his life together, maybe has some money, maybe knows what he’s doing. That stings for some people, I guess. Especially when they thought just existing was enough to deserve a partner.
And let’s not pretend there’s some moral high ground here. If any of us had the chance to sleep around in our 20s, we would. Most guys just don’t get the same options. But instead of admitting that, they call women "damaged goods" or say society is collapsing. Feels more like projection than anything else.
The way I see it, a lot of this anger comes from fear. When women have choices, they stop settling for the guy who’s been sitting on the sidelines his whole life waiting for someone to pick him. They pick the guy who worked on himself. And that’s hard to accept.
It’s easier to sit online blaming Chad and hypergamy than to admit it’s on us to be better people. I get why it hurts, but screaming about it isn’t going to change reality.
Let them live their lives. Either get your shit together or keep sitting in the corner mad at the world. No one’s coming to save us.
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