>>22937326 (OP)This is how humans work.
If females have a long gestation period, it means pregnancy carries more risks.
If pregnancy carries more risks, those risks need to be minimized.
Risks are minimized by females being very picky and making sure their mates have genes that result in healthy offspring.
Female that are not picky are less likely to successfully give birth to healthy babies and raise them.
Females that are picky are more likely to give birth to healthy babies and raise them.
Females that are picky pass on their genes, females that are not picky do not pass on their genes.
Genes that make females picky become more common.
Over the course of millions and millions of years, you get only picky females.
This is how human females work and 10 years, 100 years, 1000 years, 10,000 years, 100,000 years will change absolutely nothing about this.
As a male your goal in life is to be the one that females pick. You can cry about not being picked, or make sure you're the "1%". Even if it doesn't result in females picking you, the things it takes to be that kind of man are things that are generally healthy for your body and good for your mental health.