>>22941339 (OP)Males and females are different.
Women are petty and find flaws everywhere and are highly sensitive to what other people think of them. So they flee anything they think someone might judge them about, such as the myriad flaws in every man she comes across. Such anxieties cause her vagina to dry up and she simply cannot have sex due to the headache it has given her. That means only flawless chad can open her legs, until he dumps her, and her whole self image implodes.
Men are straightforward, forgiving, and above all horny as a rule, willing to take a chance, enjoy second rate goods, can look beyond the superficial, and don't care so much about what other people think. So they can give Second Rate Suzy a chance, and if they're compatible on various factors, marry her.
The problem men have isn't their standards, it's women's standards. Women refuse to treat men with the same forgiveness that they themselves receive. They misinterpret male forgiveness and generosity as an entitlement, and then look down on men who treat them nicely as losers who don't deserve the time of day.
Unless you're a serial killer, that is.