>>22971038 (OP)this is not how Jesus is at all, he is not anyone's lovey dovey "buddy". He is the Lord God Almighty, and His love is not some weird overly emotional new age looooveeh aah.
God's love is loyalty, he is faithful and true, that's his love, and we can not love God without keeping his commandments (John 14:15). It's holy, selfless, and eternal. His love corrects, disciplines, and restores (Hebrews 12:6), always aiming at our salvation and transformation. It is a covenant love, never failing, even when we do. It's not permissive indulgence, but a consuming fire (Hebrews 12:29), seeking to purify, not merely to please. Ultimately, it is the foundation of redemption, the reason for creation, and the power behind the cross.