>>23051684 (OP)
then change your order next time
MAKE them second guess that you're always just going to order the same thing
violate their sense of what is normal and proper; allow them to anticipate NOTHING
remind them that you are a man of agency, and not a mere creature of habit
show up wearing a snorkel, and an evening jacket... order a napkin... and A BIG PIECE OF CHOCOLATE CAKE
the grill grill will learn to respect your unpredictability, or they will learn to fear it
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PMgKrLMUPuo